Does the elderly have reduced libido and receive sexual services? What are the skills for elderly human life

Elderly people receiving sexual services

There are reports that in Nanning, Guangxi, some middle-aged women are soliciting elderly people to do "business" on the roadside or in the small forests of small riverside leisure places in multiple sections of the urban area. Their methods of solicitation are very ambiguous, either flirting or hooking their fingers. Some women hold the elderly man's neck face to face and sit tightly on their thighs. The elderly man's hands are directly inserted into the woman's chest. Some women pretend to have one hand pounding the back for the "customer", while the other hand provides sexual services for the elderly man.

Some elderly people receiving services cover their faces with their hands, while others disregard their surroundings. According to a middle-aged man passing by here, they are engaged in pornographic services, including "flying", "fast food", and "shooting". The prices generally range from 20 yuan to 50 yuan, and the service targets are mostly middle-aged and elderly people who entertain and play here, regardless of day and night.

How do elderly people cope with sexual desire issues?

It should be noted that marriage relationships between elderly and young people are based on two aspects: love and sexual desire, but with different proportions. Due to the decline of sexual desire in elderly people with decreased sexual function, love should become more intense. From the perspective of most people, partners who live a joyful life in their later years have particularly delicate and profound love, which is manifested in their ability to take care of each other in life, show empathy for each other, and provide psychological comfort to each other. In old age, people should participate in more cultural and sports activities in their later years (such as fishing, spring outings, swimming, playing chess, playing poker, learning to dance, etc.). This not only benefits the body and mind, but also enhances collaboration. More importantly, it adds content to their later love life, which can make up for the shortcomings caused by decreased sexual function.

People with such situations should also pay special attention to prolonging the interval between sexual activities and not indulge in their own desires, as elderly people need to have a good recovery of their nervous, cardiovascular, and muscular systems before engaging in every desired sexual activity. Sexual activity itself requires a certain amount of physical strength and endurance. Therefore, the more restrained and attentive you are to interval rest and nutrition, the more satisfied your sexual life will be. As the saying goes, 'Farewell is better than newlywed', which is also a testament to this issue. On the contrary, if one indulges in kidney damage, it will affect sexual function. Here, it is important to point out that the elderly with brain trauma, diabetes, hypertension, atherosclerosis and other diseases should not have too frequent and intense human activities, especially the elderly with stroke after rehabilitation, otherwise it is likely to induce another stroke; Especially when it comes to abstaining from indulging in sexual activities after drinking alcohol, some people believe that this can help the weak and enhance the mood. However, jokes cannot last long and can harm one's health and prolong one's life.

In fact, for this physiological phenomenon of elderly people with sexual function accompanied by systemic decline, there is no need for "specific drugs", and there are actually no "specific drugs". Indeed, it is not uncommon to use auxiliary treatment methods for the elderly, such as moxibustion on acupoints such as Mingmen, Shenshu, and Dantian; Massage acupoints such as Taixi and Yongquan when washing feet with hot water; Take decoction such as Bawei Shenqi Pill; Practicing martial arts, etc.

Five Skills for Elderly Human Life

1. Lowering expectations leads to a comprehensive physiological decline in the sensitivity of sensitive areas and an increase in the intensity of sensory stimuli required to stimulate sexual arousal, leading to a slower and less intense human response in the elderly. Only by bravely facing this transformation and actively engaging in marital sexual activities according to the characteristics and patterns of the elderly can satisfactory results be achieved.

2. The frequency and duration of sexual activity among elderly people should be determined based on their own health status and interests. Can maintain sexual activity 1-2 times a month, or at least once every two months. Persistence is important, otherwise 'sexual emotions' and' sexual interests' will also escape.

3. It is normal for elderly men to experience a significant decrease in ejaculation strength and a decrease in semen volume, regardless of form; And ejaculation is not necessary during sexual activity. In addition, sexual intercourse in the elderly does not necessarily require orgasm: it does not necessarily require couples to complete it together, and "masturbation" can also be done: sexual activity does not necessarily have to be done in the bedroom or bed.

4. The manifestation of sexual activity with diverse content is definitely not just sexual intercourse, some elderly people are more willing to satisfy the desire for ideological intercourse. Caressing and attachment play a more important role in sexual life, and are also important ways to ignite passion and maintain marriage. Fantasy, flirtation, humor, teasing, teasing, gentle gaze, and other forms of feelings and emotional expression can all close the relationship between husband and wife. External mutual attraction, psychological interdependence, and emotional complementarity are all expressions of love and important parts of sexual life.

5. Medical intervention: As age increases, both spouses experience physiological changes that increase the difficulty of sexual activity. Most elderly men's physical functions tend to decline, with a progressive decrease in androgen levels, which can lead to erectile dysfunction; Older women can also experience a decrease in estrogen secretion, leading to a decrease in vaginal secretions and dryness. Therefore, necessary medical interventions are needed.