Post Date November, 16 2024
From ancient times to the present, a woman's first time is considered very important, which is related to the reason why a woman's first night is very painful. The question is how much pain she really has, and does it really go to her heart? Word of mouth has it that the first time is painful, and media such as literature and movies promote the pain of the first night, which is closely related to the innocence of girls, to the point where people have already developed a sense in their minds that first sex means distortion, and pain is something that women must overcome in this ritual. Women are destined to suffer and suffer, So women should at least be cautious about their first night just to be afraid of pain. If this man doesn't want you anymore, you will have no pain! I paid for nothing!
In this situation, no woman believes that the first night will not hurt, and the more innocent a woman is, the more painful it is. This shows how much you love your partner and how noble a spirit of sacrifice you have sacrificed yourself to him.
Does a woman's first time really hurt?
To 100% preserve the phenomenon of redness on the first night, we can only use the pain on the first night as evidence. This unconsciously reinforces the concept that "the sensation in the vagina during first sexual intercourse must be pain", which has almost become a collective subconscious, making it unquestionable for both men and women. Men will cherish the dedication of women, and women will demand their loyalty as a result.
This concept must have its rationality, as it is a classic product of patriarchal cultural hegemony. Too many women are afraid of the movement of the penis entering the vagina due to this so-called pain, and even feel very scared when they think of it. They will not be able to have normal marital sex for many years after marriage. This has led to public opinion of infertility, tragic divorce, and a sense of guilt towards their husbands, causing them long-term psychological pressure and a series of psychological and/or physiological problems, such as anxiety, depression, gynecological inflammation, autoimmune diseases, skin diseases, etc.
Therefore, in order to eliminate this misconception, it is necessary to fundamentally liberate women's sexual rights, allowing them to enjoy equal rights with men and respect each other. This way, women will not feel overwhelmed, sacrificed, or bullied due to voluntary sexual activity. At the same time, the explanation of the hymen in sexual education must be in place.
