Post Date December, 03 2023
1、 After the quarrel
The man's idea: he hopes that after the end of the quarrel, the "truce" will come back to normal.
Women's thoughts: Although the positive dispute between them has ended, they can't help thinking about it. They are getting angry because they are completely innocent.
How to coordinate and run in: First of all, you must understand that he is not insensitive or indifferent. Basically, the idea of men is that all that should be quarreled is over anyway. Let's "make up"! However, it is impossible for him to say these words.
Men's anger comes and goes quickly, so they recover faster than women after a fight. Therefore, you might as well tell him that although the quarrel has ended, your mood has not yet subsided; In this way, he will understand that you are more or less angry. Then, ask him to sit on the sofa with you for a while, or go out for a walk together.
2、 After getting up
The man's idea: his mind is full of things that will happen after going out, such as whether there will be a traffic jam on the way to work, whether the data required by the boss is ready, or whether the conversation with the customer can go smoothly.
Women's thoughts: You want to say goodbye, talk more before going to work, and even talk about the programs after work.
How to coordinate and run in: try to start your day with more practical and specific things! For example, while eating breakfast, watching TV news or listening to radio - weather and road reports can help his brain "warm up". As for the evening program, I will send a text message to discuss it with him after entering the office.
3、 On a date
Man's idea: The date he expected is a leisurely time to taste delicious food and wine and flirt with his girlfriend.
Women's idea: Your ideal date is a sweet and romantic interaction between two people, plus a constructive dialogue on your intimate relationship.
How to coordinate and fit in: unfortunately, men do not automatically tune the content of chat from daily conversation to "deep" topics because of the flowers and candles placed on the table; That is to say, he is unlikely to talk to you about his childhood and family, your future, his ambition and so on all day long when he is dating. In fact, the factor that can trigger him to talk is usually the topic of your chat (if he is interested), not the romantic atmosphere. Therefore, you can only hear what you want to hear if you have a dialogue on a platform that is recognized by both sides.
