Sexual activity is a part of marital life. A happy sexual life between couples can bring about a more harmonious life and also contribute to intimacy between them. So what are the standards for a harmonious sexual life?
Standard One: The Connection of Love
Without separating "sex" and "love", experts insist that the "mind" occupies a central position in sexual life and other fields. Experts view sexual life as an extremely important part of a couple's relationship. Experts are willing and committed to their own and each other's sexual satisfaction.
Standard 2: No right or wrong
Couples who have a harmonious and happy sexual life understand that there should be no absolute standards that everyone should abide by during sex. There is no question of what is right or wrong, as long as both parties are satisfied, it is sexual happiness.
Standard Three: Bridging the Gap
Couples who have a happy sexual life may also encounter the question of "gender gap". However, due to the fact that the relationship between husband and wife is filled with a spirit of mutual satisfaction and mutual consideration for each other. They will take the initiative to bridge the potential gap.
Standard 4: Dare to talk about taboos
There has been a long-standing taboo in society to talk about sex, and couples who have successfully engaged in sexual activity should never consider each other as divine beings who can read the thoughts of others. Instead, they open up and engage in frank discussions about their sexual life. They also understand that wanting the other party or both to engage in a new behavior, action, posture, or approach together does not necessarily mean there is something wrong.
Standard 5: Wonderful balance
In sexual life, each party needs to give and receive, and both men and women need to serve and receive each other's services. A wonderful balance of mutual pleasure, initiative, and complete giving and receiving built between couples will always make their sex extremely enjoyable for both parties.
In addition, repetitive sexual activity is not only harmful to health, but also difficult to make the pleasure of sexual activity flow smoothly. Both spouses should pay attention to it.