Post Date December, 02 2023
He said - both are difficult to accept. But if there is a slight mental infidelity, it can still be accepted. In fact, many times we see attractive members of the opposite sex and find it difficult to prevent them from engaging in mental infidelity. This type of infidelity is referred to as mild mental infidelity. As for the physical infidelity, it's hard for me to imagine.
She said - if a man wants to change his heart, he won't be able to bring back 800 old cows. Isn't there a writer who said that there are several things in the world that can never be returned after losing them, such as past times, lost hair, cut organs... and one more thing is a lover who has changed his heart. If it's just a physical infidelity, it could be a momentary impulse or confusion, and there's still room for redemption.
What does he mean by saying - 'Can you keep people but not hearts?'? I think mental infidelity is a more terrifying thing than physical infidelity. I don't want to live with a body and maintain a superficial form of marriage.
She said - both are dead, just how to die... If you really have to choose, you can't tolerate physical infidelity. Because for me, having emotions is the only way to have sex. If she had handed over her body, her heart would have already been handed over.
He said - it is not necessary or possible for couples to demand 100% love. As long as my wife loves me 70% or 80%, I think it's enough. Similarly, I can only love her with 70% or 80% of myself. If her emotional life is a blank except for me, then I may underestimate her a bit, at least I think she is not rich enough.
(Intern Editor: Cai Junyi)
She said - 'Callinginlove is easier to forgive.'. Every day of our lives, we encounter many attractive people; And people generally appreciate beautiful and beautiful people, so it's okay for physical infidelity to lead to mental infidelity. But there must be no physical infidelity, even without love! If I knew he was cheating physically, he would definitely die a miserable death!
He said that mental infidelity can happen to everyone anytime, anywhere. Can you guarantee that your wife has no other opposite sex in her heart besides you? Can you guarantee that besides your wife, there is no other opposite sex you admire or love in your heart? I believe that both men and women will be attracted to more than one opposite sex, and you can only marry one person in the end.
She said - I have a girlfriend and her husband is very good at making money, but he is always away from home. She went out to dance, intentionally getting to know other men, and then had a one night stand. She doesn't care about this matter at all. She happily tells us a few good friends and doesn't feel guilty about her husband, because she still loves her husband and only has pure sex with that person. She distinguishes sex and love clearly. So, she also doesn't mind her husband's physical infidelity, as long as she can be sure that her husband loves her the most.
He said - I told my wife that when I work outside, there are many temptations, and sometimes I'm really afraid I can't control myself. If I really did something wrong, I hope she can give me a hand, forgive me once, and don't let this family easily fall apart. In exchange, I can also forgive her once. She agreed.
She said - it's difficult to accept mental infidelity. If I love him very much and he no longer loves me, I will be very uncomfortable. Physical infidelity can still be forgiven.
He said - I hope my wife has an affair, both mentally and physically. She is at least a college graduate, and I don't know how she has become like this now. Not reading, not studying, not interested in new things. Every day, there is nothing more than cooking, buying groceries, watching TV, and taking care of children. When you see a third party on TV, you call them cheap. If you want to talk to her about something, make some demands in your romantic life, and you may just turn around and say that you have a broad mind and want to be a third party. It's simply closed and conservative, a stagnant pool. I thought if she really had an affair, maybe she could still stir up her pool of water.
