Post Date November, 16 2024
Six wrong sexual attitudes make sex a burden, without having to have sex too regularly and rigidly. Having sex too regularly becomes a 'system', and timing and quantification can affect sexual interest. Let's learn about some six wrong sexual attitudes together.
1、 There is no need to have sex too regularly and rigidly.
Sexual activity is too regular and systematic, with fixed time, quantity, and location. An overly rigid schedule or way of making love can make sexual activity lifeless, low in excitement, and even make partners feel bored, feeling that sex is a form of coping between couples, and can easily cause partners to feel a sense of tension and oppression towards sex.
2、 Don't often joke about sex.
There will always be sexual signals in couples' sexual love, and the other party should respond positively. Joking in sexual love can also add fun, but it must be moderate. If inappropriate signals are often sent out in sexual love, just like the arrival of the The Boy Who Cried Wolf, when there is a real demand for sexual love, the partner may misunderstand and joke and ignore it, causing conflicts, and the desire for love is lost.
3、 We should not seek novelty or differences excessively to have sex.
Couple sexual life has become more lively in today's open world, and many people have read level three movies or books that describe the details of sexual life, and inevitably want to give it a try, which may make sexual life more interesting and happy. However, it is important to pay attention to the differences in sexual attitudes between couples. If it is difficult for a partner to accept this, they should try to maintain consistency or adopt a gradual and excessive approach to change. Otherwise, it will definitely cause the partner to worry, doubt, or even be unhappy, and good intentions may lead to bad things.
4、 Don't force your partner to have sex.
There are certain differences in sexual abilities between men and women, and individual sexual abilities also decline with age, which is a natural law. Of course, sexual desire is also influenced by work, emotions, health, and other factors. There are always differences in sexual desire between men and women, so it is not necessary to require partners to maintain consistency, otherwise sexual activity may become mechanical and lose interest over time.
5、 There is no need to take a shower after sex.
The hygiene of the reproductive organs is very important. Before sexual activity, both spouses should clean their external genitalia thoroughly. For example, after having sex, simple cleaning is enough. However, you have your own opinions on sex, always rushing into the bathroom or asking your partner to clean it immediately afterwards, which may cause a lot of discomfort, lack of sexual pleasure, and also affect sexual quality.
6、 Not every time there is a woman's Orgasm.
In recent years, there have been many articles about women's Orgasm, which makes couples want women to often have Orgasm, or one-sided pursuit of the so-called Orgasm effect, which is unrealistic. Experts pointed out that women's Orgasm is affected by many factors, so marital affairs and psychological pleasure are the most important.
