Post Date November, 16 2024
There has never been a compass in sexual life, and everyone is searching for the secret of love. However, if you blindly and indulgently program it, it will respond to you with double pain. A recent survey published in Taiwan's "Freedom Digital newspaper" confirmed this statement.
Among men aged 25-65 in Taiwan, one in three is dissatisfied with their current sexual life, and the older they get, the lower their satisfaction. 85% of people admit that being a stickler for the rules has caused them to lose interest and even orgasms to become dull and tasteless.
Programmed sex is boring
Sex always starts with me. From the initial conversation to the final passion, with the same bed, the same quilt, and the same atmosphere, one can think of the outcome without starting
Starting from the same parts and reaching orgasm in the same place. After 10 years of marriage, we have become so familiar with each other's sensitive points that we can almost draw a human body map
On Saturday night, we all obediently washed up and went to bed. The deepening understanding made me feel completely cold, as if the embrace that night was only for the same purpose
In the survey, many people mentioned the issue of aesthetic fatigue in marital life. Huang Shicong, a urologist at Changgeng Hospital in Taiwan, said that because of the lack of passion, many men even lost their "masculinity". They either hastily dealt with their partners or had no desire at all, and thought they were ED (Erectile dysfunction). With the help of an economic theory, when the sexual supply is too single, even if it is more frequent, people's appetite is difficult to be aroused, and sexual life naturally becomes a chicken rib.
The vast space for changes in sexual aesthetics
When it comes to adding freshness to sexual activity, the first thing many people think of is' where can I learn some techniques? '? However, experts believe that in terms of sexual life, the space for technological exploration is limited, but the space for aesthetic exploration is infinite. The best aphrodisiac is love
Huang Shicong pointed out that the development of "sexual aesthetics" includes a wide range of content, such as setting a theme every week, changing a sexual environment, and changing a set of sexual clothing. If the man takes the initiative in daily life, occasionally the woman can also play the role of a "motor"; If the program is usually top-down, occasionally you can try bottom-up. How to do it is not important, the key is to be fresh.
Ancient emperors usually had countless beautiful harems, but in reality, they often suffered from sexual numbness and even sexual incompetence. The reason is not only that there is too much sexual supply, but also that the space for sexual aesthetics is too small. This is because ancient emperors had certain standards for choosing wives, and women had to "conform to the law". As a result, most women seemed to be carved from the same mold. So when Emperor Xuanzong of Tang saw Yang Yuhuan, who "looks back and smiles, and the six palaces are pale", his interest immediately increased.
Transforming sexual views
For a young man, fresh sex may seem easy to achieve, but in the survey, 11% of men over the age of 40 reported physical exhaustion and inherent erectile difficulties, and trying tricks was even more inadequate. In fact, addressing sexual dissatisfaction and changing sexual attitudes is also a choice.
Taiwanese gender expert Zeng Yangqing called for men to establish a new concept of "four nots and one have", that is, not limited by time, not under pressure, not deliberately planning, not ignoring the feelings of their partner, and enjoying a more enjoyable and autonomous sexual life. If the body is tired, it's also good to enjoy a candlelight dinner, take a mandarin duck bath, and relive past emotions; If you have Erectile dysfunction, you should seek medical advice as soon as possible, and if necessary, you can regain confidence through medication. At the same time, it is important to maintain a good daily routine and not blindly believe in folk remedies to avoid causing more regrets.
