Love is a required course in life, and in the process of love, it is inevitable that the Cold War period is indispensable. The cold war is not really terrible, but the terrible thing is that we are at a loss.
In fact, there are many ways to break the cold war
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01
Do more self criticism
When there are conflicts between men and women, no matter who is right or who is wrong, they can no longer be arbitrarily accused, as that will add fuel to the fire. Instead, it's important to do more self criticism and find out what's wrong with yourself, which can help alleviate tense relationships.
02
Talk to the same friend
Let this friend analyze the reasons for the cold war between the two people, and then tell them the solutions respectively, so that the problem can be solved as soon as possible.
03
Old place, cold conversation
Find a place where two people often go out for a quiet chat. In this familiar environment, both parties can more open their hearts and talk about the past and future of conflicts. It's much better to just talk about it.
04
Eat something
Eating is always a perfect way to divert attention. You should be clear that during the Cold War, if you can't control your thoughts, it's unnecessary to think about whether your boyfriend doesn't love me anymore or whether he wants to break up with me.
In fact, boys just want to calm down and solve problems calmly. So, all you have to do is eat and let these thoughts gradually disappear.
05
Separated for a period of time
Give each other more space. During the Cold War, we can temporarily separate for a while, and each other can be quiet. When we miss each other, it is time to make up. This is the solution that follows its course, referring to the short duration of the Cold War.
06
Don't speak ill of each other
During the cold war, to avoid emotional intensification, it is necessary to speak less, and it is best not to speak, so as not to speak out and hurt others. During this period, both of them are very sensitive, and it is easy to make trouble if they speak ill of each other.
07
Proactively admit mistakes
Boys and girls are different. Boys can usually be the active ones, and there is nothing to lose face with. Instead, they will make the other party more dependent on you. Putting down your figure, giving the other person a loving look, a sincere apology, and a signal of reconciliation will strengthen the relationship between them.