Post Date December, 03 2023
In the daily busy work and life, people often neglect to express their love to those around you who are important to you. If you are not sincere at the beginning, it will be several years since you realize this. If the relationship between you has become flat or if you like your friends wishfully, here are some ways to help you show your love to them.
1. Listen to each other
It is easy to chat with others, talk about news or chat with friends online. When your lover wants to talk to you, you should listen actively, stop what you are doing and focus on it. Listen to what she wants to express, understand what she cares about and worries about, or what she really likes. Do some nods or eye contact to show that you are paying attention here.
2. Prepare unexpected gifts
You must have given gifts to your lover, such as on their birthday, Christmas or special occasions such as Valentine's Day. But have you ever given a gift on a normal day? For the recipient and the giver, an unexpected gift brings the most heartfelt happiness.
However, this gift doesn't need to cost much. For example, send them a chocolate they like, a bunch of small flowers, or a book you know they like... and so on. You will find that this is also a good way to say "I love you" without much money.
3. Take the initiative to do housework
For most people, a very popular gift is to help with housework. If your wife often cleans the kitchen, you can go to clean the kitchen for her and surprise her. If you are often "choked" by nagging, then don't ask anything and go clean directly. You will slowly find that there are many small ways to make some people happy on that day and let them know their position in your heart.
4. Make a special dinner
If you still eat takeout on Friday night, why not give yourself a chance to do it? Prepare a special dinner for your lover. You don't need to find any special interface, nor do you have to be on Valentine's Day or other anniversaries. Including her favorite food, take a few minutes to clean up the table and play some music. I promise you will remember this evening for a long time. Even the ordinary things like sitting on the sofa at ordinary times will still be fresh in your memory.
5. Leave a note in an unusual place
Perhaps your life has become so busy that you find that your schedule rarely arranges the time you spend with your spouse or children. Why not try to leave a note in some places to give them an accident.
As you may know, mothers will leave a small note in their schoolbags for their children. You can also start here, or you can try to leave a note beside the kettle, on the refrigerator door, on the pillow, on the computer screen, etc. Maybe it can be a "competition" game between you, and the game is about who posted the most hidden place!
6. Write love poems
One way to say "I love you" is to write a love poem. You don't need to be Shakespeare, just look for sincere and original ways to express your love. Try not to use vulgar words, but write something meaningful to yourself, such as the way she laughs.
7. Embrace
Body language contains great energy. Just a hug can make a loved one show a sweet smile on his face. Whether sitting on the sofa with your lover or letting your child fall asleep in your arms, giving him/her a hug and warmth is the best way to express his/her love.
8. Hand in hand
When the relationship becomes comfortable and familiar, things like hugging and holding hands are things we tend to ignore. Try to hold your lover's hand when shopping, or hold her hand on the table. This kind of physical contact will make your feelings closer. This is especially important when you want to discuss a difficult argument or problem. When your lover is in a bad mood, holding her hand is a tangible expression of support for her.
I believe there are many ways to express your love without saying "I love you". Do you have any good ideas? How did your lover express their love?
