Post Date December, 02 2023
It is reasonable to say that there is no great difference between men and women's views and feelings on the topic of friendship. But once it is implemented into action, don't believe it, it is really different, evil.
Men's friendship is freehand brushwork, while women's friendship is meticulous brushwork
The friendship between men is strange. Sometimes it seems very fragile. For example, no matter how good two people are, as long as their wives are not compatible, their friendship will also fade, at least the frequency of contact will be reduced to the minimum; At present, men can't help but draw swords, otherwise how can there be the word "lust over friends". But on the other hand, men sometimes quarrel with their wives and even turn on their faces in order to have a drink or play cards with some smelly brothers.
What's more interesting is that when men meet, they clap their shoulders and call each other brothers. Then they go to drink, but they fight because one agrees with the fight against Taiwan and the other is against it. The two fight black and blue. After this battle, the two men began to admire each other for his personality. It can be seen from this that men's view of friendship is very rough, full of contradictions and instability. They can turn friends into enemies at any time, and they can turn enemies into friends at any time. This is too incredible. In women's eyes, it is a blind waste of time to make friends.
Women are much more straightforward, and there is not so much procrastination. Two women tend to be enemies and friends when they first meet.
Talk temperament, dress, look charm, whether you have a sweet voice, whether you have eyebrows all over your face, and so on. All details are measured by women, and the good and bad are determined in an instant. If they feel like friends, they will greet each other with a smile, "hold your hand and be happy with you", and it is easy to really become friends in the future; If they don't think they are friends, they don't bother to pat you on the shoulder and call you sister, let alone drink with you. At most, they nod politely, smile slightly, and then leave each other, but the hostility is like this. In the days to come, they will form feuds at any time and anywhere, which is unexpected for men - there is no image to explain the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law with this theory. Women's view of friendship is stable and single-minded, like it, hate it, what is it to discuss? They will never become friends with her immediately after a fight - in women's hearts, friends belong to bel canto, unlike men, who use friends as popular songs and sing around the world. Also, as long as two women are good, even if their husbands have complaints, women can often think of 100 ways to make them conform.
(Intern editor: Zhao Minqing)
