Before entering orgasm, one needs to taste the infinite scenery. Only in this way can we truly achieve orgasm that fully satisfies our desires. This not only depends on the physiological differences and excitement curves between men and women, but also on the natural laws of people's aesthetic psychology.
Sexual intercourse refers to the comprehensive contact and communication between men and women for complete sexual intercourse. Entering the caressing stage, entering sexual intercourse, precisely at this stage, the curtain of sexual beauty gradually begins.
Caressing is particularly important for women. At this stage, women need to be caressed, which is based on dozens of reasons. She needs to use caressing to stimulate her libido, prove herself to be a lucky person in love, eliminate various concerns and concerns, feel her husband's intelligence, tenderness, carefulness, and thoughtfulness, and feel that he can appreciate and accept everything he has.
Caressing, only caressing can activate the gate, open the curtain, eliminate obstacles, and enter the character. Only caressing can prevent one from going astray and entering the gates of hell in the realm of sexual decay. Caressing can also inspire and guide all satisfactory and joyful ways to complete normal and sufficient physiological behavior.
Sexual intercourse occurs between mature individuals of the opposite sex, excluding cruel abuse, obtaining excitement without abnormal means, directly or indirectly aiming to satisfy sexual desire. After reaching a certain level of stimulation, the activity of ejaculating sperm into the vagina ends, and both men and women achieve orgasm almost simultaneously.
A complete, harmonious, and beautiful sexual intercourse behavior should be divided into stages, including prelude, caressing, sexual union, post sexual caressing, and mixing of sexual excitement with the third stage mentioned above.
From a narrower and more accurate perspective, the third stage of crossing can also be referred to as sexual crossing, starting from the entry of the male genitalia into the vagina and reaching the limits and crossing purposes of both parties by pouring and receiving the seeds of life. Strictly speaking, transportation is convenient when the penis is retrieved from the vagina. Its biological purpose can only be obtained during fertilization and pregnancy, but pregnancy is not an indispensable part of the bonding process, and sexual bonding is not always the fundamental condition of pregnancy. Therefore, check whether love is the prerequisite for sexual intercourse, whether both parties pursue common joy, whether both parties respect each other, whether they enjoy equal rights, whether they seek the enjoyment of beauty in a complete, sufficient, and multiple sense, whether there is a beautiful caressing stage, and whether there is a feeling of caressing stage.
Of course, partners who cannot truly understand and love can completely ignore this process and only pursue the satisfaction at that time. However, if the love between both parties is warm and delicate, this kind of caressing can become an important aspect of sexual life. Unfortunately, today's ordinary marriage life is often overlooked.
Losing touch and not truly enjoying orgasm. The true climax must be Xiufeng, hidden in the infinite scenery of caressing.
The caressing stage not only affects the subsequent orgasm stage, but more importantly, it will inevitably generate resonance and resonance. As a stage of caressing, from the initial sexual arousal to the beginning of sexual intercourse, which is before the male genitalia begins to penetrate the female vagina. The rich content and importance of this stage can prove the psychological experience of many people, especially women.
A woman wrote in a letter: My husband got tired of my problems while having sex. Every time I ask him, are you because of need or because of love for me? At first, my husband always patiently explained, of course, for the sake of love, giving me many examples. However, I still asked him this way, and gradually he became impatient. Every time I asked him this way, he always said love, love. How can I prove that I am for love? I know he told me a lot, but in my experience, love is not spoken in words, but expressed during sex.
My husband often goes straight in, and when he presses on me, I feel very desolate. I even want to cut him off. Once during sex, I asked him again, 'Why are you doing this?' Because I'm just a woman, and my husband is almost driven crazy by me. The husband always feels that neither saying nor doing is right. How can he indicate that he is in love? Although I can't explain it clearly, I vaguely feel that a true love based sexual life should not have no prelude or prelude. I hope he can raise me and appreciate my origins. In this situation, I first feel love, love.
As a husband, the sexual desire development curve of women before orgasm seems to be very different from that of men. Therefore, they often can extend the process of caressing, but they do not know that caressing is not only determined by the development process of the curve, but also by aesthetic needs. During the process of these husbands completing their impatient caressing routine, they did not inject emotions or master techniques. Can we sometimes ask? Is it okay? Is it okay? They didn't mean to taste caresses with their wives. So caressing cannot bring beauty to him and his wife. This kind of caressing is just a percussion of gongs and drums, without opening the curtain of sexual beauty.
A woman mentioned this experience in her letter. She said, 'My husband is very impatient with my love. He always asks me,' Hello! '! Where is your sexy area? Please tell me! Just like my sensitive area is the power switch, it turns on power as soon as it moves. But in fact, I don't know where my sexual sensitivity zone is either. I just can't feel his love for me. I can't feel the excitement my husband can feel either. I sometimes wonder why people are different. He is always so excited, why can't I get excited?
The author of ideal marriage, Slade, believes that caressing, as an art, can bring great pleasure, and its degree is no less than the pleasure of intercourse itself. In an ideal marriage, sexual relationships and caresses in the second stage should be valued as much as interactions in the third stage. Caressing is not a mechanical stage, but a passionate and artistic interest that should be filled with love. Some people may not be able to accept each other during the orgasmic stage. But generally no one can accept caressing. Stendhal once said that women who are cold and lack enthusiasm have not actually met women who want to fall in love with men. We can say that women who are cold and lack enthusiasm, even if they encounter men in love, may still be women who have not been fully loved by men.