Post Date December, 03 2023
Destiny doesn't respond to your request. It wants to give you better
How strong can one bear at the lowest point?
Before I was 25 years old, I never considered this question.
After the age of 25, my friends and I met the roadblocks set by fate more or less. These ugly roadblocks either make people fall into the deep valley or block people in the middle of the slope.
My Faxiao was adopted at her grandmother's home in the countryside after she was born. At the age of 19, she finally got together with her parents. Her younger brother, who was 5 years old, was used to monopolizing their love, so they did not get along well.
But regret is not the whole of life, and fate will not become merciful because of your acclimatization.
At the age of 24, she married.
At the age of 28, she divorced.
Now, she lives alone in a different place with her young son.
Life moves forward, twists and turns follow.
I often think that people's minds are too shallow to hold too many bitter opinions, and they collapse after seeing all this.
I want to comfort her, but what can I say? She doesn't need it at all.
I have not seen her tears, let alone heard her complaints, after a long period of time when I was not treated by fate. On the contrary, her QQ signature always changes every few days.
"I tried to make carrot, mushroom and vegetable balls, and my baby was very satisfied."
"Overachievement, get the best gift one second before work."
"Go out for a walk and see the sunset after the rain. Life is wonderful."
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Some people say that after suffering, people will think a lot and change a lot; However, some people say that people are forgetful, and even if they experience the pain of life and death, they will soon return to trivial and busy.
In fact, they are both right and wrong.
You see, things always have two sides. In addition to cruelty, life is also harsh and fair. After suffering, people are more grateful.
Because the hard fate can never stop the soft dream, and the full sorrow will always be washed away by the contentment and joy with good intentions.
Each protagonist in the story is an ordinary friend around us. They have been hurt, hurt, surprised, hurt, made mistakes, and gone through detours. Their experiences are not the same, but the ending is similar.
In fact, no one in the normal life is not treated by fate. The meaning of life is not to stop it from hating you, but to live so that it likes you. If fate is cruel to you, you must bear it.
The metabolism of cells happens every moment, and so does a person's life state. To endure the cruelty of fate, to strip away the complaints and resentment that cannot change the status quo of life, and at the same time, to constantly renew the ability: to guard their original intentions fearlessly and solemnly, without relying on any force, without giving up any ideas, and believe in their choices. Even defenceless people have the courage to stand up with their swords. They can't stop their love of lightning even though they are separated by thousands of rivers and mountains.
Every emergency in life may push you into the unknown. Nobody can control it. The only thing we can do is to carry it.
If you can bear your suffering, the world will become yours.
This is the way they treat life, and it is also the height of life I hope to achieve.
Small is still small, material is still material, but bitter is not so bitter.
The ordeal and trials of life come and go like the tide. I'm not worried about becoming the protagonist of the disaster. I will do my best to help myself and go to a warm and bright place.
The sun is good, the rain is good, and we are also good.
