Post Date December, 03 2023
Just as the topic of a gathering between women and girlfriends cannot be separated from men, when many men gather together, they will also discuss the women they have dated with great interest. Don't look at their usual reticence, listen to them discuss women's topics, and you will be absolutely surprised! Next, follow the editor to uncover the secrets of love from the psychology of love, and let's decrypt the psychology of men together!
Men's Psychology: What do men like to discuss about women
1. A woman's face and figure
Men are always visual animals, and when they are together, they always discuss which woman is beautiful and which woman has a good figure. You will find that all parts of a woman's body are discussed in detail by men, otherwise some people will always say that men are lecherous animals!
When men stay together, they often like to discuss some women's faces and figures, such as whether their faces are beautiful or not, and whether their bodies are slim or plump.
Whether these appearances can meet their psychological and physical needs.
2. A woman's character and heart
Although men are visual animals, it doesn't mean they only focus on women's appearance.
Women's personality and heart are also their focus points.
Of course, whether a man has a good character or not can also be the standard for men to evaluate a woman. Even if a woman is beautiful, if she has a malicious heart, she will be disgusted by men. The image of a woman can be slightly inferior, but the heart must be kind and the temper must be gentle.
3. Women's family background
With the development of the real situation, men are increasingly concerned about women's family background, just as women are concerned about whether men have money in their homes, whether they have cars or houses.
If a woman has a very poor or rich family, it is more likely to become a source of conversation for men.
4. Women's emotional experience
Men talk about women, and if they have a strong interest, it is impossible not to talk about women's emotional experiences.
For example, which man did you break up with before, what was the background of that man, and how did that man treat her in the end.
Or maybe there's never been a man at all, still a virgin or something like that. Like women, they also chat until the sky is dark and the ground is dark, and they don't stop until they make a point. At the same time, they also tease each other about their chat partners.
5. Women's Current Gossip
It is always said that women like gossip, but men are also similar. However, men's gossip is slightly more selective than women's.
No one can resist gossip, and gossip is not a woman's exclusive right. Men always comment on their female friends around them, such as "Who is she dating?" or "Her boyfriend is too ugly." These are all things that men are happy to discuss after lunch.
6. Women's various abilities
The connotation of this ability is relatively broad. Such as work ability, communication ability, life ability, and even sex ability. If men like to talk about this woman, then these abilities of this woman cannot escape their mouths.
Love Classic: How Men Control Women's Heart
Who says women can't change? Since gold can be forged into rings and earrings with pleasing shapes and dimensions by fire and craftsmanship, why can't women be more perfect and moving by the passion and love of men? If a man just wants to wipe the dust off a woman's face, a woman won't refuse to make herself more beautiful.
1. Make full use of a woman's jealousy
Women are not born with love, and their jealousy can make them disregard everything and even make shocking actions. Men with a heart may as well try to use their women's jealousy to change some of their personalities and hobbies. However, it is important to carefully choose the analogies of jealousy and avoid people who are prone to emotional misunderstandings. It is best to be your own sister or her sister relative.
2. Take the other way and give back to the other
No one doubts their ability to understand others, but who can truly appreciate the feelings of those who experience them personally? What can be more profound than a personal experience? If your woman is always nagging in your ear, always complaining indiscriminately at all times and occasions, why don't you just treat her in her own way? See if her nerves can withstand the boring chatter of language harassment. If your method is appropriate, when she voluntarily asks for surrender, it will be the day when you accept her victory.
3. Pain shifting method
There is a so-called pain removal method in medicine, but in order to alleviate the pain in one place, they choose another disease-free place to apply a more painful blow to alleviate the pain in the previous place. This is a bold but effective approach for men who want to change women. You should first identify which hobbies you want to change for her, then choose a hobby that she also loves but doesn't dislike, and then start blocking the first hobby. When her endurance and resistance consciousness will reach the highest point, you can block her second hobby. "A woman's reaction must be very strong at this time, and you should strive to avoid a positive conflict with her. After a few days of waiting, you should suddenly find an excuse to argue with her about her second hobby. After a few days like this, you should show your concern and love.". You should take the initiative to make peace with her, ask her to forgive your rudeness, and promise that she can slowly resume her second hobby as appropriate. One of the precautions in this law is to control the scope and intensity of disputes, and the other is not to mention the first hobby either during or after the event.
4. Playing hard to get
This is a commonly used method in military tactics, and it is also very good when used against women. But it requires men to show enough patience. Isn't she fond of shopping? It's good enough for her to stroll around. "Although you can spare no effort to let her shop at will and accompany her at your own leisure, you may as well go around and inquire about where new shopping malls are opening, where there are trade fairs, and other information to inform her... What do you think will happen to her when she is tired of shopping and there is no money at home to buy vegetables?"? She will regret it and will definitely get rid of this bad habit.
5. Intimacy punishment
Intimacy is the most important content in male and female communication. Women often use punishment to deal with men. In fact, why can't men take advantage of this method? It's just that men should take a more gentle approach in the actual process. "He cannot refuse to cohabit with women as women do not allow men to do so, because women have stronger self-control than men, and women are naturally suspicious, which is bound to cause unnecessary problems.". He should control his excitement by manipulating the weight of life in the process of life, and these changes naturally cannot escape careful women. "She will definitely ask you what's wrong. If you tell her it's because you saw her thick, powdery face, do you think she will still be so heavily dressed and annoying you next time?"?
6. Clash and kill method
Everyone likes to praise. Since it's the woman you chose, there must be many beautiful and lovely places, right? Why don't you tell her? It's not difficult to boast about her bright eyes, soft long hair, and intoxicating curves, but it can help you achieve the desired results unexpectedly. In ancient times, ministers used to sing praises of merit and virtue before carefully raising topics to the emperor that might offend the dragon's face. Because they have mastered the psychology of ordinary people and know that those who are praised will feel good. If you are a man with a heart, why not choose to talk about issues that can be sensitive to a woman after praising her? The effect may be surprisingly perfect.
7. Equivalent exchange method
Things always have value, and things that women want to change should also have a reasonable price. Even if it's just a small favor and it's used in a proper way, women can also make great gifts. Isn't it easier for women to understand and accept such a big gift in exchange for giving up something? If you give your woman a red underwear that she has long liked and remind her to wash it before wearing it, will she pick up your dirty clothes from the washing machine and only wash her new gift? I believe not.
(Intern Editor: Chen Hao)
