Post Date November, 16 2024
Sex is initially an interactive process full of fun, relaxation, and enjoyment. However, the problems you often make and hidden habits make love in bed boring and regrettable. This is a flaw in life. In fact, in order to fully enjoy the pleasure of sex, sometimes one can give up unimportant persistence and expectations, and feel the mystery and pleasure in it. Misunderstanding: His fixed sensitive points always bring half the effect of work. Correct solution: Machines have fixed programs and efficiency, but cannot have sex.
Love in bed is a joyful thing that brings enthusiasm and vitality, just like football, whose charm is reflected in its foresight. If viewed as habits and obligations, setting fixed schedules and procedures, and blindly waiting for the expected results, it would be a big mistake. Machines can start within a certain period of time, but people cannot. Perhaps you can reluctantly agree on how many times to have sex per week, but you cannot agree on how many nights to have sex per week. Not to mention having sex in the room. Similarly, there is no way to maintain orgasm.
Experts believe that all tricks and movements are ways to enjoy sex with each other. They stubbornly believe that changes in posture and stimulation from habit sensitive zones will satisfy the two, and according to agreed habits, they will definitely lose the pleasure of enjoyment, adding incredible pressure and norms. People's sensitive points are different every day. With the change of mood, physical condition and environment, the process of sex is a process of creation, discovery and exploration, including contingency. Therefore, experts suggest that we search for the most sensitive parts during sex, in order to achieve twice the result with half the effort. Misunderstanding: Having an orgasm makes sexual beauty meaningful. Correct solution: Treat orgasm as an unexpected surprise during sexual intercourse and fully enjoy the indescribable pleasure involved.
According to data, 4 out of 10 American women experience orgasmic disorders, which affect their overall sense of superiority and health. Freud also believed that women's sexual desire is an unknown continent in their souls, hidden in the unknown world of skin wrinkles and muscles. Therefore, although orgasm is beautiful, it is not. Especially when we intentionally pursue, we often cannot pursue. Su Ling is 28 years old and a bank employee. She has a good relationship with her husband who has been married for 3 years, and her life is satisfactory. At the beginning of her marriage, she accidentally reached an orgasm. Since then, every time she had sex, she wanted the same pleasure, but why, after that time, she could hardly reach an orgasm.
Su Ling was a bit dissatisfied, and she began to complain that her husband was not working hard and only wanted to be happy, regardless of the other person's feelings. Once, Su Ling went to Wuxi to study and met her boyfriend from college. They had a one night stand, but unfortunately, Su Ling did not receive the expected pleasure and was even very uncomfortable. She thought her heart was dead, and the first thing in bed was really like this. She didn't expect to reach an orgasm during some sexual intercourse shortly after returning home. She believed that some things were unexpected. Under normal circumstances, if you try the beauty and satisfaction of sexual life, you can't help but have a desire for every sexual experience. However, when you only need a little to reach the peak, the other party often fails and cannot hold on.
No matter how hard the other party tries, your own body doesn't react when you fall asleep, which can sometimes be unpleasant. So, speaking of it, is orgasm really so important? In fact, sex is a holistic concept, and orgasm is only a part of it. If orgasm is the only goal, it will lose the beautiful part of sex. On the other hand, the absence of orgasm is also one of the types of sexual disorders. Please check the reason why your orgasm is no longer present. For example, whether there is psychological depression, whether sexual indulgence has occurred, whether there has been sexual indulgence in relationships with couples, whether there has been sexual indulgence, whether there is physical obesity, and whether there is tension in other situations. Due to the above reasons, please consult a doctor and use medication for treatment. Misunderstanding: Men in bed like shy women who can play the lead and control sexual activity. True solution: Men hope to relax and actively emit sexual signals.
Some people conducted an interesting test: randomly selecting 136 men and imagining four types of sexual activity, two of which were neither male nor female being active, and the other two were both taking turns being active. The results indicate that men's adoption of positive traditional patterns is not popular, and men have a strong response to women's adoption of positive patterns. Experts believe that men prefer women to play the leading role in sexual life because it can awaken men's potential desires and release them from taking on the responsibility of the sexual protagonist. A gentle and shy image can indeed make men see a strong side, but the reserved nature of the story can also lead to a loss of desire. Wen Ying was originally an outgoing woman who was full of romance in her marriage life. After getting married, she was too restrained herself. She is always afraid that her husband may feel old in experience, so her silence and passivity in bed are not suitable for him.
Once, my husband couldn't help but ask her, 'Are you feeling unwell?'? What's on your mind? After a while, the husband was very bored with the things in bed. Actively express your love for sex and tell him your thoughts on sex. If you like his method and speak boldly in his ear, he will receive psychological satisfaction and not meet your requirements. In fact, as long as you change your useless sexual beliefs and boldly and passionately enjoy sex, your life will have many unexpected joys.
