Post Date December, 02 2023
Panyu and her husband have been married for ten years. During the ten years of marriage, the love between them is sweet. At a party, many friends learned from them. They told their friends a wonderful way to maintain their marriage: regularly clean up the emotional garbage. After listening, my friend suddenly realized.
Think about whether you often accumulate some emotional garbage in your marriage life, which leads to many conflicts between husband and wife. Let's take a look at specific ways to clean up emotional garbage.
Don't argue about women's "duplicity"
Many people know a law: when a woman says "no", she is actually saying "yes". Therefore, men should be good at grasping women's psychology. For example, when she "runs" on you on a certain occasion, most of the time she is only to improve her status and self-confidence, but also to "get addicted". Therefore, don't quarrel with women because of this. Men should be more generous and just laugh it off.
Speak out your dissatisfaction with him
As a woman, there is always a lot of housework to do. Sometimes, when you are washing clothes, cooking, and taking out garbage, he is free to sit next to the computer and play. You can't wait to pull him from the computer immediately. Men are born to play. Sometimes when they are married, they can play more than when they are not married. For this situation, some women will always be angry. When the volcano erupts, it will make the relationship between husband and wife estranged. Therefore, you should speak out your dissatisfaction with his playfulness in time and never hold it in your heart.
Make three rules for men's violence
Sometimes men tend to be a little violent, and will start when they can't control their emotions. Women may be angry with men for more than half a year because of this action, and will not give men a good look every day, but also use sex to reject men, which makes men very distressed. Over time, the relationship between husband and wife will be greatly affected. If you still love him deeply, put forward three rules to him for his first act of violence, so that he will never dare to bully you again.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
