Post Date December, 02 2023
There are many ways to remove physical scars, but emotional scars can never be erased. Marriage is the ultimate destination of emotions, but not everyone can protect it well. If emotions encounter friction and cannot be treated rationally, resulting in intensified conflicts, the cracks will spread until they reach the point where they cannot be healed.
Is there no way for emotions to heal? In fact, instead of smoothing out scars, it's better to avoid them. The simplest way is to tolerate each other.
Accommodating the faults of a partner
Contradictions in marriage are inevitable, but they can be dealt with calmly. Who can err without being a sage? Facing the mistakes of a loved one, one should understand and understand them with a broad heart, and guide and correct them with the intersection of their hearts. Compulsory restraint will only deepen the other party's rebellious mentality, and there will be a clear "master-slave" level relationship between them. In the long run, emotions will inevitably become estranged.
Correcting the mistakes of a loved one should be like treating the younger generation with the same patience as the older generation. Use your utmost patience to help them correct their mistakes, give them the opportunity to reform, and move them with sincerity, making them feel the power of love. Of course, mistakes cannot be made frequently, let alone repentance. People's hearts are made of flesh. If even love cannot shake their cold heart, they should consider whether to continue living.
Marriage requires tolerance and understanding
True marriage is not only the spiritual and sexual integration of both men and women, but also needs to be established on the basis of mutual respect and tolerance between both men and women. Men and women, even couples who have been married for many years, have feelings that are not inert elements in chemistry and do not have a relatively stable structure. If they are slightly careless, they will break up.
Love is a fragile item that needs to be handled with care; Love is a perishable product that needs to be protected from decay and constantly monitored for signs of deterioration. Be a thoughtful person, don't put her in a safe just because you marry her back home or him.
Love requires tolerance and understanding. No matter how perfect your love was, it will always become rusty and even unbearable due to the erosion of time. For marriage, the most difficult thing is not life, but the reunion of hearts.
Therefore, regardless of any difficulties in marriage, we must support and tolerate each other. Only by jointly enduring everything in life can one feel happiness and happiness.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
