Post Date December, 02 2023
Introduction: It's all right for two people to be together, but men often don't want to enter the palace of marriage so quickly. Marriage is like a tomb for their men. Once they enter, they can't get out. Not only that, they will be subject to various constraints in life, so they are more willing to fall in love than marriage
1、 Business is too busy to have time to fall in love.
Many successful men are so-called golden bachelors. They are not short of women, but they have been avoiding marriage because they are too busy. The territory and field of their career are expanding, and they are almost too busy to fall in love. Men who are too ambitious may have no intention of getting married. Even if they want to get married, they will find a business partner, so that they can have a common topic. In addition, if you want to become a successful man or a partner of a career man, you should first help a man. At least this partner should not be a stumbling block for him to expand his career.
2、 Too much emphasis on inner feelings, and have fantasies about marriage.
Some men care too much about and value their inner feelings, and have some kind of fantasy about marriage. Such men are full of escape from marriage. After all, marriage is a trivial matter. When you step into the siege of marriage, your eyes and ears will be full of mediocre years such as daily necessities. What's more, you have to be ready to spend your whole life with another person. If this partner is not the one you really love, then a marriage that just makes do is bound to make people feel painful and tangled. Therefore, for those men who pay too much attention to their inner feelings, most of them are full of resistance to marriage. Men who value their inner feelings too much lack tolerance for their other half, while marriage itself needs to be tolerant of each other, otherwise it will be unsustainable.
3、 Outright non-marriage advocates freedom and independence.
The important reason why some men avoid marriage is that they value freedom and independence more than life. As the saying goes, marriage is valuable and love is more expensive. If it is freedom, both can be thrown away. Some men themselves are completely non-married. In their life dictionary, there is only love and no marriage. They can enjoy the sweetness and freedom of love, but they can't bear the responsibility and triviality of marriage. So these men often go to some popular dating websites, and can form virtual families with the women they love. They call each other husband and wife. They can enjoy the ambiguity to their heart's content, but they will not be trapped by the daily necessities of life. This kind of relationship is preferred by most urban men. Sometimes they will meet the woman they love offline to have a meal and watch a movie, and then have some sex. Two people can continue to associate if appropriate.
In fact, a man himself is a young child. Even Jiang Wen said in the latest movie that he is just a child. In terms of emotion, men may never really mature.
