1. Their own conditions are insufficient. Affair is a luxury consumption. Not every married man has enough capital and charm to make other women willing to be a third party. Even if mediocre men are salivating, they can only "stop at the top of the mountain and look forward to it". They are not unwilling, just can't, but if there is a cockerel dog, it will be "expensive and easy to make, rich and easy to wife". The so-called "honest men" mostly belong to this.
2. The husband and wife are sincere. In fact, this reason is a little far-fetched. Don't believe the crocodile tears of an affair man. They will make a mess of their marriage life and gain sympathy and understanding. In fact, many men have a happy marriage and a happy family, but they have to make waves on the ground. Therefore, women should not suffer from infantile diseases. They think that an affair will only meet someone else's husband, while their husband is an insulator.
3. Too much trouble. Encounter is a complex and systematic project, which includes all aspects of economy, politics and culture. There is no need to lie and cheat. Encounter is like diplomacy. To play balance, you need to play flawless, please both sides, and be all around. Life is like a war every day. It is really lack of skills and time. People with weak hearts can not bear it. It is extremely troublesome. It is better to muddle along. Lazy men often belong here.
4. There is a thief in mind, but there is no thief in mind. The affair is an "emerald" in the Swiss bank. Like Zeta Jones in the "Skylark Trap", no one dare to steal the sky and change the column unless he is brave and wise. Those who want to have an affair, think of the serious consequences - family collapse, divorce, lost future, notorious If the opportunity cost is too large, we have to hold back. Most rational men belong here.
5. Emotional roughness. An affair is the life story of a superior person, and it is also a matter of slow work and careful work. Only those with noble birth and delicate mind can have this spiritual appeal. Otherwise, three meals a day are not guaranteed. How can I have the mind to have an affair? A man with rough feelings is tired of coaxing a woman. How can he spare time to fight other women? It's better to drink with friends and play cards!
6. Smallpox complex. An affair is like smallpox. If you haven't, there is always the risk of smallpox. Once the disease has occurred, the patient will have antibodies and will no longer suffer from the disease. The affair is a beautiful movie, but in fact, it is logically chaotic, with split content and hysterical nerves. So people who have had an affair understand the truth. However, the survival time of this antibody varies from person to person. Some people "forget the pain after healing the scar", and some people "fear the well rope once bitten by a snake."
7. Opportunity is not caught. An affair is like winning a lottery. It can be met but not demanded. Even if you have time, energy, money and charm, you should be mature and seize the right time. Maybe you are henpecked and have no freedom. Maybe you haven't met the right person. If the adultery goddess doesn't like you, don't be sad. The so-called "Feng Tang Yilao, Li Guang difficult to seal." The ancients have many talents, and you are not many.