The naughty son made trouble at school again, and Conway was again invited to the school by the head teacher to "drink tea". As the saying goes, "Don't blame your godfather." The teacher put all the blame on Conway and "taught" him a lesson. The disgraced Conway was very angry. He felt that he had carried the "black pot". The son's mischievous behavior was not caused by himself, and the wife who "helped the tyrant" was the culprit.
Conway came home angrily and beat his son hard. "What are you doing? You know how to bully children when you are angry!" The wife has always hated the way her husband educates children, and her baby son has suffered from flesh and blood, so of course, she can't sit back and ignore. "Bullying children? He is spoiled by you!" Conway coaxed his son into the house and pointed his finger at his wife.
"You spoiled him!"
"Why me? You can't educate children!"
The husband and wife do not give in to each other, shirk their responsibilities and criticize each other. Although this is not the first time, the resentment accumulated for a long time has erupted. This quarrel pushed their contradiction to the peak, from the issue of educating children to life behavior, all kinds of frictions and conflicts were exposed, and the "war" became white-hot.
The quarrel for several hours ended with separation and separation. The husband and wife each live in a room, and the children take turns to take care of each other. The originally harmonious family is on the verge of collapse.
Mutual accusation and complaint between husband and wife can easily destroy harmonious life
Mutual understanding and tolerance are very important for couples. If you can't understand each other and often criticize each other, then marriage can't maintain harmony. Because accusation will cause the other party's bad feelings, the husband or wife will despise the other party, laugh at the other party, and shift the responsibility for some things to the other party, which will certainly cause the partner to taunt and become angry, thus causing emotional breakdown.
Therefore, in order to ensure the happiness and harmony of the family, we must be tolerant, considerate and tolerant of each other. Only in this way can we reduce the friction of conflicts and avoid emotional frustration.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)