Post Date November, 16 2024
Due to various factors such as conceptual and psychological differences, men and women have many issues with sexual life that are either inaccessible or difficult to address. So, what are the common problems in couples' sexual life?
1. Will he dislike me after I have a child
After the wife gives birth, it is normal for the husband to lose his "sexual interest", but fortunately, this process is very short, which is a few weeks. This does not mean that the wife loses attractiveness in their eyes, mainly out of consideration for her. They knew that their wife had just experienced some pain and didn't want to put any more pressure on her.
Psychologists believe that it is natural for both spouses to focus on their children at this time. However, this special stage will soon pass. Communication between spouses is particularly important, as wives should not only take care of the baby but also neglect their care and tenderness towards their husbands. Otherwise, he will feel abandoned.
2. The book says that the average frequency of sexual activity between couples is once to twice a week, but we haven't had sex for several months. Do we have any questions?
No. The frequency of sexual activity varies from person to person. Every couple will experience a period of asexual life. Sex is intermittent, intermittent and intermittent, with occasional cold and heat. This is mostly caused by external factors, such as financial constraints, fatigue, irritability, anxiety, child disturbance, and even some subtle psychological changes can have an impact.
3. Despite my husband's best efforts, I still feel a sense of loss after sex. Do I have any questions?
No problem. At most, communication is not very good. Men instinctively know how to do it, but women are ashamed to ask their husbands which parts need to be caressed. When their husbands fail to do so, they will be very disappointed. In fact, you can either personally tell him what to do, or unknowingly guide his hand to touch the sensitive parts you desire to caress, and express your pleasure in a timely manner, encouraging him to continue. This subtle interaction is greatly beneficial for a harmonious married life.
How to live a harmonious married life?
1. To have a sense of enjoyment
Sometimes, women try their best to meet their husband's needs in order to be afraid that they won't be able to satisfy him. But sex is actually a mutual act of giving and receiving, and if one blindly satisfies the other, women will eventually become resentful of "that kind of thing". Women should clearly explain their needs to their husbands without feeling guilty or embarrassed, as in fact, men prefer women who can enjoy sex. When a man discovers that his actions can bring happiness to women, it is more exciting than any aphrodisiac.
2. Don't pretend to have an orgasm
In order to please their husbands, some women can pretend to climax realistically, making it difficult for men to distinguish. But when doing so, they didn't think of the long-term consequences: pretending to climax without feeling happy, but asking the husband to repeat his wrong behavior next time because he mistakenly thought that way could make women happy. A woman once had the experience of her husband vigorously rubbing her genitals to achieve orgasm, but causing her great pain. She was embarrassed to tell him that his approach was too rude, so she pretended to reach orgasm to stop him. Unexpectedly, he would rub her in this rude way every time in the future, causing her more and more pain. In the end, she couldn't bear it and had to tell him the truth. This dealt a great blow to her husband, and this woman was also very regretful, indicating how good Bai was from the beginning.
3. Don't ignore your husband's feelings
It is generally believed that men seem to be able to enter without any foreplay and enjoy it. Actually, this is a misunderstanding. Touching and teasing can make men more excited, because when women do this, they are saying how much they like their bodies. Some women may be shy and hesitant to take action, but there is definitely no man who doesn't like women doing it, so just take the courage to do it and it will immediately have a noticeable effect. Touching and teasing are very simple, as long as you keep sliding your fingers through his entire body, especially the inner thighs and nipples; Sometimes touching his lower part as a tease. In addition, women can also use their hair, tongue, and eyelashes to increase their teasing effect.
4. Don't be afraid of Sexual fantasy
A woman admitted that she imagines having sex with Leonardo every time she has sex with her husband. This imagination made her extremely excited, and her husband also enjoyed her wild movements. She didn't think it mattered much, as she couldn't really have had an affair with Leonardo. Experts say that Sexual fantasy is healthy because it is not only a great motivator, but also something that happens in fantasy should not be taken seriously. For example, if a Heterosexuality man fantasizes about lesbians, it does not mean that he is Gay men; A woman's imagination of having sex with a man other than her husband does not necessarily mean she wants to have an affair. Sexual fantasy just shows that the person has rich imagination, and it can really stimulate the sex.
