Post Date December, 02 2023
When two people in the marriage become "old husbands and wives", many things are cooled down. The sweetness and romance of the past, the contentment of the past, and the tenderness and consideration of the past will be reduced. This is that the distance between the two hearts is gradually expanding. If you want to maintain a happy marriage, you must narrow the distance between them and make the heart closer.
First, small details are also considerate
Many married people think they already know each other well, and the old husband and wife don't need more words. Unexpectedly, even the old husband and wife also need the care of gentle words. Kisses in the morning, greetings on the way to work, hugs on the way home from work, etc. These small details unconsciously convey the love for each other and bring their hearts closer.
Second: tolerance of trivial matters
Married life is always inseparable from firewood, rice, oil, salt, soy sauce, vinegar and tea. There are always many trivial things and difficulties in living. When faced with these, everyone will complain. If complaints are not understood, our feelings will crack. So, in the face of these, what we need to do is not how to complain about the triviality of life, but to understand each other's difficulties and tolerate each other's shortcomings, so as to make the road of marriage go further and longer.
Third: ensure the freshness of marriage
After getting married, many women gradually neglect their dress in order to take care of their families, husbands, elders and children. The husband who has been busy all day will not feel happy when he comes home and sees his "plain face" and sloppy dress. As a woman, even if she is busy for life, she should maintain her image. To be a person with both wisdom and ability, it is best to not only go to the kitchen, but also go to the hall. Focusing on their appearance and image will not only make their husbands feel "beautiful and delicious", but also make them feel very proud when they go out.
In addition, you need to add patterns when you have sex. Perfect sex can keep feelings constant, and perfection needs more fresh elements and patterns to embellish. Therefore, couples should use more brains and means to keep their sex in a long and happy state.
Fourth: Full communication makes love last longer
When the blankness of marriage replaces this passion, we often neglect our communication with each other. When you are free, sit down and have a good conversation. Not only can we understand each other's ideas, but also let us understand each other better and understand each other. Conversation is not only a part of life, but also an essential part of marriage.
Life is sometimes like a lump of hemp. There are always small lumps that cannot be solved. You should know that life is not only about living, but also about making it colorful. Therefore, when our marriage is as flat as water, we might as well use our brains to warm up our marriage inadvertently and make each other happier.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
