Sexual Health
Children's reaction to witnessing their parents' sexual activity: how to handle witnessing their parents having sex
As children grow up, they also gradually develop an interest in sexuality. If parents are accidentally seen by their children during sex, what kind of psychology will the child have? How should parents and friends treat this matter?
The love of animals, the drumming noise of men, and the mating of animals also move calmly during the day. From ancient times to the present, men have always liked women and have always been hiding in secret places. The original creator completed sexual intercourse in the depths of the jungle and the back of the rocky cave, while modern people enjoy a romantic atmosphere in their private rooms. But something went wrong. Due to poor living conditions (suffocation of parents and children living together, bedridden) and inadequate parental supervision, it is not uncommon for children to unconsciously witness the sexual process. In addition to embarrassment, the question worth pondering is what effect does sexual intercourse have on sexual psychology when children witness adults (or parents, brothers and sisters...)?
Children of all ages react to witnessing parental sexuality
According to research reports, children of different ages unconsciously witness adult sexual intercourse, with varying moods and reactions.
Children aged 3-4, as well as many children who sleep with their parents, also have children who sleep with them. After the child went to bed, the parents did the room work. Couples forget about sex, their movements are too intense, or they are good at forgetting their shape. The joy they emit during sex awakens the child. When the child wakes up, they are not clear, their sleeping eyes are blurry, and when they see the movements of their parents' rooms, they are also monks, unable to touch their heads. It's unbelievable for parents to keep their children up late at night. I dozed off, didn't care about anything, turned over, and fell asleep again. Parents should immediately stop moving and be cautious when they notice their child is awake; If a child asks a question in a daze, it is important to calmly and cleverly explain and prevaricate, as this can cover up the past and easily dilute the child's impression of witnessing sexual intercourse. However, if time and time again, over time, children will become suspicious and even turn from unintentional witnessing to intentional witnessing. So far, things have become complicated.
Children aged 5-6 or older may unconsciously witness adult sexual intercourse without knowing the reason or secret, but may be curious and happy. Curiosity, wanting to find something, happiness, wanting to imitate. They waited for the opportunity to witness again. They listen and speak among their peers. They posed a series of questions in front of other trusted adults. When faced with an opportunity, play the game of 'making love'. Especially boys, regardless of the other person's will, force them to play sexual games and roughly imitate the movements of the room.