Post Date December, 03 2023
After a breakup, there will be a period of discomfort, so don't easily deny it. Many people will behave like this after a breakup. Suddenly transitioning from a symbiotic state where two people interact and become single to spend the whole day, there may be some psychological discomfort. What is the rebound period of a breakup? After a breakup, you may have a period of mental entanglement, which is your breakup rebound period. At this stage, you may reunite with the other party, and you may also separate from them from now on.
1. I want to reconnect with him, just to be friends, but due to my self-esteem, I'm a bit uncertain and don't know what to do.
This is an obvious sign of a breakup rebound. In shallow consciousness, due to the self-protection mechanism, you transform yourself from "missing him" to a common idea of "just wanting to be friends". However, in reality, subconsciously, most of you may want to continue dating him and learn more about his news trends, which is a true manifestation of your desire to get closer to him again. In fact, this is completely human and not embarrassing, so there is no need to feel embarrassed about it! If there is still hope between you, and opportunities can also be artificially created, it is possible to miss the opportunity if you do not take action at this time. It is advisable to proactively contact him and give yourself and him a chance to start over!
2. I want to spend time with the opposite sex and those who are similar to him.
Don't easily deny it, many people will behave like this after a breakup. Suddenly transitioning from a symbiotic state of two people interacting with each other to being single and spending the whole day alone can be somewhat psychologically uncomfortable. In addition to being a best friend, I also hope to have a boy to accompany me, and it is best to have the same temperament or characteristics as him, either gentle and meticulous, or humorous and cute. Only when I am with such a boy can I regain the familiar sense of security that I once knew.
3. Gradually becoming suspicious of my original decision to break up
This is another self-evident breakup rebound label! It can be imagined that from the very beginning after a breakup, you may feel carefree and have to dominate your happy life alone! Full of various beautiful aspirations for the future. But not long after, you gradually became bored with a person's life and began to relive the warm time spent with them in your memory. Although there were joys and sorrows, laughter and tears, you understood each other openly, and your heart was as full and full as life
You start to doubt your original decision to break up, intentionally or unintentionally. Since that's the case, why not continue in a symbiotic state with two people again? After this test, I believe you have gained a better understanding of each other and cherish the reunion after parting. Suffering always brings wisdom and enlightenment to people. The fact that you can finally reconcile is also a serious explanation for each other!
This undoubtedly and without any novelty once again exposes your true heart. If you don't complain to your friends, roast, express your dissatisfaction with him, and expose his bad habits, then my dear, don't hesitate, listen to your heart's voice, and continue to let this love go. If you were to examine yourself from the perspective of a bystander at this moment, would you blurt out: this is completely unable to get rid of his shadow! So, since you have such a clear understanding of yourself, the next step doesn't need me to say, you should also know what to do!
