The sexual harmony between couples is directly related to the harmony between them. Some tips have a multiplier effect on improving the quality of sexual activity.
A domestic survey conducted more than a decade ago showed that there were 46 married people in the country. 7% of people sometimes change their sexual lifestyle. More than half of 7% of people frequently change their sexual lifestyle. More than a decade later, couples who frequently try to change their sexual positions may go far beyond these. It should be said that nowadays people are increasingly fond of trying to change their stance, and they are also becoming more tolerant.
There are three reasons for this
Improve sexual pleasure satisfaction and interest, making sexual life more diverse
Trying new methods brings new feelings and experiences, which helps overcome the monotony and boredom caused by long-term performance
Improving intimate relationships between lovers can reduce the survival rate of extramarital sex.
The way you choose
Changing time, place, and environment
Having sex 24 hours a day without interruption, and couples who always have sex at night occasionally have sex at noon or other unexpected times in the morning, can make the mundane sexual life novel and interesting. Sexologists say that pre planned sexual behavior often increases people's expectations of sexual excitement, but in the long run, it may be monotonous and sudden - unexpected love can bring more passion and novel feelings - so combining these two situations is the smartest way.
Dots do not always lie on the bed in the bedroom, such as occasionally lying on the carpet in the bedroom, on the sofa in the living room, on the kitchen aisle in the hallway, or on the sunshade. Of course, if you have the conditions, having sex on the beach, in the forest, in a cabin, or even in your own car is more romantic. Of course, the light smell and temperature changes in the sexual environment can bring new meaning to warm and passionate moments.
Changing the Sexual Role in Sexual Intimacy
Lovers must play active, passive, aggressive, and submissive roles in sexual life - male - cool, father and dignity, son, female, mother, mother, gentleness, daughter, daughter. For a long time, both men and women may tend to focus on the role of sexuality - if frequently active men become passive or submissive, and frequently passive women become active or aggressive, this is a more novel feeling and experience.
Changing contraceptive methods
Using different contraceptive methods can bring different sexiness to sex, and changing these methods can bring different experiences. Usually, couples who use condoms can try a feeling of using topical contraceptives, while couples who use contraceptives can switch to oral contraceptives over time to see how they feel. Even when using condoms, in addition to commonly using domestic condoms, it is still possible to choose imported or condoms with concave and convex lines, fragrance, and different colors. There are changes, novelty, novelty, and not boredom
Couple massage
In recent years, marital massage has become popular in Europe, the United States, and Russia. This combination of fitness and sex massage greatly enriches couples' sexual life as a way to promote sex. As foreign sexologists have said,
Various parenting methods
All of these forms of intimacy are referred to as nurturing - so the space for nurturing is very extensive - if you can use your hands and mouth, and use various nurturing methods in any part of the body - including changing the power of nurturing - it will certainly bring different novel pleasures and overcome sexual boredom. In a broad sense, caressing should also include the role of language in sexual intimacy - all expressions of love, love, and tenderness - which increase the diversity of sexual lifestyles.
Required ideas and principles
Human sexuality is rooted in relationships between lovers, and without a good emotional foundation, sex can become a rootless source of water. Therefore, when it comes to sexual diversity, couples should first have an intimate, honest, and profound emotional foundation. Of course, the diversity of sexual lifestyles will further enhance this relationship.
Face-to-face enjoyment function, eliminating unnecessary shyness... In modern people's concept, apart from sexual reproduction function, there is no refusal to enjoy function... Therefore, people can seek happiness in their marital life by pursuing sexual diversity, preventing external temptation, and maintaining a good marital relationship.
To pursue new sexual behavior, we must adhere to the principle of grasping the scale... We must adhere to the following principles, which are essential when designing and evaluating new forms of sexual behavior, especially when disputes arise between both parties.
Voluntary principle
Regardless of the type of sexual activity chosen, both parties must agree and be unwilling or forced to take one's actions.
Pleasure principle
Choosing any type of sexual activity should make your partner feel comfortable and happy, without feeling uncomfortable or painful.
Health principles
Principles do not affect relationships
Any selective means should not make one or both parties feel unqualified from ethics and customs, and even have significant psychological pressure, which is an unbearable shame. Otherwise, it will only cause mental pain and frustration, as well as conflicts between spouses. Of course, we can do some work in understanding problems and even have to be patient, but we cannot rush because we are immature.
It has been proven that having such skills in sexual activity is never old and cannot be learned. Mastering these skills can help promote a more harmonious relationship between couples.