Many people believe that having sex with elderly people is very shameful, which is a very unethical idea. Elderly people also have sexual desire, as long as it does not affect their physical health, as long as it does not affect public order and good customs, elderly people can also have sexual life. Next, let's take a look at what issues elderly people need to pay attention to when engaging in sexual activity.
What should elderly people pay attention to when having sex?
1. Act within one's means
Elderly people also say that they can have sex, but it must be within the range of their health conditions, with health as a prerequisite. Be appropriate and act within your capabilities. Older people may have chronic diseases as they age. This is not a factor that hinders people's sexual life, but during acute attacks, temporarily stopping is the first thing to take care of one's own body. After having sex, the next day I feel very tired and uncomfortable, and I must adjust the frequency of sexual activity.
2. Hygiene should be done well
Elderly people should pay attention to hygiene and develop good hygiene habits when having sex. Elderly women have low resistance and lack of hygiene can easily lead to senile vaginitis. So, before and after sexual activity, both men and women should wash their private parts well. If you have had a sexually transmitted disease, you should have sex after healing the disease, and both men and women should be treated together during the treatment process.
3. Sexual activity should be safe
The safe sex life mentioned here refers to not having too much promiscuity, not challenging moral foundations, and not violating legal principles, which means not engaging in prostitution. The correct choice is to use reasonable methods to vent the existing needs of the elderly. Don't have multiple sexual partners at the same time, be loyal to your sexual partner, and have a single partner.
4. Discomfort should be immediately interrupted
During sexual activity, elderly people may feel unwell and should not reluctantly continue. They should stop immediately. If the symptoms have not disappeared yet, you must go to the hospital immediately. Don't feel embarrassed about this matter. After all, health should come first.
5. Pay attention to lubrication
As age increases, the private parts of elderly women may become dry, so do not force them to live at this time. Not only do we need to extend the time of sexual foreplay, but we also need to learn to use the help of lubricants. If you can't have sex smoothly, don't force yourself. You should go to the doctor and ask how to solve it.
6. Pay attention to posture
During sexual activity, one should use labor-saving postures instead of challenging challenging difficult positions, otherwise it will be particularly labor-intensive. And it is very likely to affect bone health, and even cause lumbar strain. Be cautious and pay attention to your posture.
6. Respect each other
Elderly people must seek their consent before having sex, as some do not like sex and some have sexual desires. Be balanced and don't force sex. Otherwise, the relationship between the couple will be affected.
Elderly people also have sexual activity and require the excretion of desires. The above are a few issues that elderly people should pay attention to in their human life. I hope everyone can keep them in mind and have a happy and healthy sexual life.