Post Date December, 03 2023
It's a pleasure to meet a lady, with a charming smile and beautiful eyes. She comes gracefully and leaves gracefully. The gentleman watched as his figure disappeared and he became independent in the air. However, according to the male protagonist Da Zhu, it is better to launch a fierce attack than to sigh and hate each other. A little more persistence, a little more obsession, the other party will definitely look at them differently, and beautiful women are not difficult to catch up with.
Love Archive
Huo Yilan, female, 24 years old, company employee, native place of Shandong
My husband's evaluation: It's very beautiful and direct, with emotions written on my face. I love to nag, and I have to say something right away, but it's hard to say.
Zhu Jianqing, male, 25 years old, company employee, native place of Shandong
Wife evaluation: I have ideas and can rely on them, and I am relatively honest.
Huo Yilan, who just got married, cut off her long hair, intentionally or unintentionally, to make a distinction between her pre marital and post marital image. She wore a camel colored cloak and leaned against the sofa, showing me her wedding photos with Da Zhu, which were highly praised in their small circle. Da Zhu shuttled between the living room and kitchen, boiling water to brew tea, handing the largest cup to Huo Yilan, and then sitting down to talk about their first meeting.
Lock in beautiful women on the grounds of friendship
It was still 1999, when the two were just in their freshman year, the school was planning a joint signature for the 50th anniversary of the National Day. Da Zhu was waiting in front of the girls' dormitory for past students to sign.
Huo Yilan came out of the dormitory building to buy food, and later returned with a lunch box. Da Zhu kept every entry and exit in mind. He said he thought this girl was particularly neat and agile at the time, and immediately sent a "scout" to inquire about Huo Yilan's details when he returned to the dormitory.
Huo Yilan said that this was just a unilateral action by Da Zhu, and she didn't even notice Da Zhu at the time. The first contact should be in the following months, one evening during the first semester of her freshman year, when she received a phone call from Da Zhu in her dormitory saying that she wanted to discuss matters related to the dormitory. Putting down the phone, a few girls began to mutter. Da Zhu was mostly looking for a girlfriend, and the social gathering was just a cover up, but no one guessed that his target was Huo Yilan.
Confusing beautiful women with "persistent and persistent fighting"
From falling in love at first sight to making up his mind to pursue, Da Zhu had been brewing for several months. He smiled and explained that the "detective" brought back false intelligence - saying that Huo Yilan had a boyfriend, and Huo Yilan was a beautiful girl of that standard. Naturally, there were many suitors, which made Da Zhu struggle for a while. Happiness seemed a bit distant, but now he can actually reach out and get it.
Da Zhu summarized that his path to happiness "relies entirely on persistence and hard work." When Huo Yilan hesitated, she immediately brought out many examples of great love to do her ideological work;
He is not worried about competition either, because Huo Yilan calmly shows him the love letter she received. The author of the love letter only signs the person carrying a plastic bag outside the cafeteria at 2 pm in the afternoon. Who is that person?
Huo Yilan said she had no impression at all. In fact, in the eyes of a beautiful girl, the poetic romance of her admirer is not much. What she needs is someone she can rely on and a heart that truly loves her.
Love Treasure
Couple files in the office
After graduating from university, Huo Yilan and Da Zhu came to Beijing to work and were hired by the same company. Da Zhu's office is upstairs, and Huo Yilan is downstairs. When he's free, Da Zhu wanders downstairs and shares the same office with Huo Yilan, each surfing the internet.
The boss of the company is a couple who have no prejudice against the couple in the office. Huo Yilan feels that being together is very convenient, but Da Zhu holds a reserved attitude and believes that colleagues should always take care of and arrange them together when organizing activities, which makes people feel unnatural.
Da Zhu's silence is golden
Da Zhu said that he has a unique way to solve marital conflicts, and the key is to understand each other's temper and apply the right medicine to the situation. Huo Yilan belongs to a very straight person. His happiness is written on his face. If he loses his temper, he will nag like a storm. If he says it, he will be fine. At this moment, don't try to argue with her. The best way is to remain silent and let her say everything she thinks.
Milestones of getting lost
Huo Yilan doesn't remember the way. In his sophomore year, he rode his bike to a nearby supermarket and forgot how to get back. Paging Da Zhu, I didn't expect Da Zhu to be playing football without a pager. When she really needed help, she couldn't find anyone. While feeling angry, Huo Yilan also realized her dependence on Da Zhu.
After searching for more than two hours, it was already 8 or 9 pm when I returned to the dormitory. Da Zhu was waiting for her to come back under the dormitory building. During the interview, they were asked about the milestones in their relationship's progress, and they unanimously chose the supermarket lost incident. The thrilling test made them realize that the other person is very important in their hearts.
