Can touching a private part during sexual buds produce sexual pleasure? How to care for children in sexual bud stage

Yang Yang has had a bad habit since he was 2 years old, covering his private parts with his hands while sleeping. Parents who are busy running around every day are not aware of their children's behavior. Yang Yang attended kindergarten at the age of three, with connected beds and thick blankets in winter. He could not find anyone to sleep in when he covered his private area.

Summer has arrived, and the thick blanket has been replaced with a towel. It's sunny and the sleeping posture is very strange. After the clinical partner took a nap, Yang Yang said. Yang Yang blushed unconsciously and said, 'What's wrong? You don't have to worry. Children aged three or four can already communicate in simple language and I'm sorry.'.

If he shares the same bed, Yang Yang is reminded that in the future, he always waits for his companions to fall asleep before resting. However, the little clever ghost didn't know, and the teacher began to pay attention to his behavior.

One day, my mother brought sunshine home and began questioning.

Baby, why do you always hold onto your urine while sleeping? The sudden question confused the child, wow... Yang Yang cried. Mom seems to know she's too powerful. What can a child of three or four understand? Quickly coax the child and communicate calmly.

Originally, Yang Yang felt very comfortable covering his private area while sleeping, with an indescribable sense of security, not just a bad thing imagined by his parents. Now Yang Yang's mother is confused, why does the child exhibit such behavior?

The editor revealed that,

Yang Yang's mother's confusion is not her alone. She believes that 99% of parents in China have doubts about their children's concealment of private affairs. Firstly, parents' sadness is due to not receiving formal education.

Children's sexual buds are prone to touching their private parts for pleasure

Children aged 2-5 are in the stage of sexual buds, during which their attention begins to shift and they obtain physical pleasure and satisfaction by touching the penis and clitoris. This pleasant feeling comes from stimulation of the sexual organs. But masturbation in early childhood and masturbation in adults are two different concepts and have completely different natures. This behavior of a child has neither adult sexual awareness nor sexual desire, nor adult sexual physiological reactions such as ejaculation. In the child's mind, it is completely a sexual game.

But during this period, parents feel panic and unease when they see their children playing with their reproductive organs. They often stop and blame their children's unconscious behavior due to adult bias, and provide harmful sex education to their children, describing sex as vulgar, dirty, and unhealthy. However, parents are likely to cause psychological harm to their children, even feeling nauseous and fearful of their sexuality, which may lead to sexual dysfunction in adulthood. Parents should pay attention to their words and actions and educate their children appropriately during this period.