Sexual Health
Can orgasm be achieved by stimulating the clitoris? Three sexual misconceptions that men are most gullible about
Sex is a knowledge, and if you cannot learn it, you may enter the wrong area. This article will explain the three personality error areas that men are most likely to believe in! Sexual misconception 1: The blackening of the external genitalia is because the young man wrote in the letter: "When I had sex with her for the first time, I couldn't help but look towards the mysterious triangle of the male genitalia in order to be curious about the female genitalia. But when I saw her lower body, I froze and couldn't believe her fair skin, it was so dark here. My sexual desire suddenly dissipated. Because only women who have frequent sexual intercourse turn black. She's not a virgin, I don't care, but if she's a promiscuous woman, I can't accept it anyway.
There is a saying in the folk that frequent sexual intercourse can cause the external genitalia of women to turn black, and even the pigmentation on the surface of the labia majoris is used to determine whether they are virgins, which is very unreliable. Usually, the color of the labia majora ranges from brown to light black, consistent with the part of the pubic hair that occurs. Although women who have given birth tend to have an enlarged range of pigmentation and darken the color beyond the genital area, this is not absolute. Teenage virgins also have examples of extensive pigmentation. Therefore, it is not advisable to use a large area of pigmentation to determine whether the other party is promiscuous. Similarly, frequent sexual intercourse does not cause the labia minora to darken. In fact, married women have fuller labia minora than virgins because friction during sexual intercourse causes the labia minora to become enlarged. At the same time, many virgins' labia minora turn black due to pigmentation, while middle-aged women who have been married for nearly 20 years still have pink labia minora.
Sexual misconception 2: wiping the clitoris can cause a wife to climax. In order for my wife to reach orgasm during sexual activity, I always try to find a way to reach the climax. I learned from some magazines and books that the penis is the part of women with high sexual sensitivity. I also know that the penis is relatively higher. So in sexual life, the penis should be as far forward as possible, close to the penis, and friction the penis to improve the wife's sexual pleasure. But every time I do this, she changes her normal position due to pain. Even if I just touch my clitoris with my hand, she will still say it's uncomfortable, I really don't understand. The troubled husband was in a good mood, but he couldn't let his wife enjoy it. For a long time, there have been rumors among the public that the size of the penis is directly related to a woman's function. In various books on sexual knowledge, it has been repeatedly emphasized that couples should use the penis to directly stimulate the penis during sexual life. These rumors indicate a lack of understanding of the process of sexual intercourse.
In fact, an erect penis is difficult to directly attach to the entire female genital area. Women who have not given birth have a tight vaginal opening, making it difficult to insert an erect penis. No wonder women often complain about pain at the vaginal opening, which is due to insufficient sexual position. In addition, when using female upper and lateral positions for sexual intercourse, men can simultaneously touch the clitoris with their hands, which may accelerate the onset of orgasm and the intensity of sexual pleasure. However, not all women can adapt to this approach, and there are also women who feel pain in contact with the penis, which actually destroys the pleasure brought by the original penis twitching. Therefore, in order to make sexual life more harmonious, both parties must constantly communicate.
Sexual misconception 3: When women masturbate, they also "scream". In Western movies, the conscious moaning or shouting in the explanation of female masturbation is a misunderstanding of female masturbation, completely due to acting skills. Only masturbation that stimulates the vagina, while stopping breathing, produces sound to strengthen movement, just like regular sexual intercourse. But most female masturbators mainly stimulate the clitoris, and there are very few masturbators who insert foreign objects into the vagina. Both men and women, masturbation is beneficial for releasing their excess performance, does not involve heterosexual or emotional disputes, and does not involve sexual assault or crimes. It is a way to relieve sexual tension, but should be restrained and not indulge. Frequent stimulation of the clitoris enhances durability and insensitivity.
Over time, prolonged and intense stimulation is required, especially when approaching orgasm, which requires greater stimulation, resulting in enlarged penis. Among women with a history of masturbation for decades in clinical practice, clitoral hypertrophy can indeed be seen. At the same time, such women also have masturbators after marriage, and normal sexual intercourse cannot achieve the strong stimulation of masturbation and cannot satisfy their sexual pleasure. This phenomenon is worth noting for women who masturbate.