Post Date December, 02 2023
I am 26 years old and unmarried. I work as a translator in a foreign company. My monthly salary is more than 8000 yuan. In my spare time, I like to speculate in stocks. Once I ran into a business executive of a securities company, who is 28 years old. After many tests, I was sure that he had no girlfriend, so I took the initiative to pursue him. Because of his elegant and handsome appearance and stable work, he is my ideal spouse.
I can drive and often drive the company car home. I waited for him at the door of his unit many times. As soon as he saw my car, he would come running. He likes to sit next to me and let me teach him how to drive. I am very happy to hear him call me "Shifu". In this way, we often go shopping and eat together. I often invite him to a big hotel for dinner, but he always takes me to a small teahouse for tea and never buys me a gift.
Observing his performance, I always have a strange feeling in my heart. I thought maybe I was chasing him, so he felt at ease. In order to find out what he really thought, I talked to him roundly about how to deal with strangers. He put on a sophisticated posture, talking about the concept of time and economic awareness, and also about investment risks in the commercial era. I was very concerned about his words "investment risk" and asked: "Is there any risk in our relationship?" He shook his head and told me, "Yes, yes!" He said that he already had a book in his mind. We should strictly control the cost of love and reduce the risk of lovelorn. You see, he is such a person, can I marry him?
Miss Jiang:
Congratulations on meeting a living treasure that gathers money.
To be honest, I don't see many men who talk about the cost of falling in love with women. It is said that the "exchange theory" is popular in foreign countries. When people fall in love, even after marriage, the expenses of both parties should be shared by the "AA system". Such a situation as you encounter, even the "AA system" can not be considered. It is really rare.
Can you marry him? I can't simply answer. It depends on how you feel after further contact with him. If you want him to be the economic pillar of your future life, you may be disappointed.
If you can think about it from another perspective, in the current business era, it is normal to have business sense and risk awareness. Besides, his career is an investor. He may bring career inertia into marriage. For you, inviting him to a big restaurant is a sign of financial ability, and his current income may not be as good as yours, so he seems stingy. If you continue to be "generous", it will cause him to feel pressure with you. Even if he likes you very much, he will naturally have a sense of risk when he is not fully sure, so he will choose a more economical way to communicate with you. According to my analysis, he is not willing to make "emotional investment", or he may be afraid of losing face because he is short of money. Of course, the fear of "losing" is not ruled out.
You can also think of it this way: this man will not put his money in the wrong place, eat, drink, whore or gamble, or spend money indiscriminately. If you marry a man who is skilled in computer, the savings in the bank may be very rich in the future; The insurance company's "gold card" customers will also need him; He has several account numbers in the securities company. In this way, the life after marriage will not be sad, right? Believe it or not? Please further contact and communicate with him to understand what kind of person he is and what his ideal and plan for future life are. In short, it is too early to decide whether to marry him.
