Post Date December, 02 2023
Control a man's stomach (few women are willing to do so)
People who control men (smart women wouldn't do this)
Managing men's money (most women say it's the most direct and effective way to get twice the result with half the effort)
Although I don't know who invented this law, after such a long time, men will inevitably be unable to bear it, and wars between husband and wife are inevitable.
Women, don't think that if you have a man's money, you have everything he has. If a woman takes all of her husband's salary and often flips through his pockets without his knowledge, she limits the man's money. This kind of money control will make men feel lacking in dignity, and in the long run, your marriage will inevitably break down.
Excessive demands=family crisis
Writer Teacher Lu Qi once said, "Marriage needs to be managed, life needs to be managed, but marriage is not a prison. Neither party is the warden
In marital life, one party's strict demands on the other are actually the taboo of love. Although the woman should be competent in managing the power in the family, she should not be too strict with her husband in terms of money. This will not only cause the husband to lose face outside, but also be detrimental to the couple's emotions. As the saying goes, "Where there is oppression, there is resistance." Once you suppress your husband too deeply, it can cause extreme dissatisfaction, trigger family wars, and even divorce wars. Even if they dare not resist, they will secretly hide, set up small vaults, and even lie to you, causing a credibility crisis between couples.
So, once there is a marital conflict caused by money control, or when a woman discovers that her husband has hidden money, she should not angrily blame the man, but should reflect on herself.
Strict wife management=love between husband and wife
The way women manage their men, especially their control over their money, is generally a manifestation of women's lack of security; On the other hand, it also shows that women love you too much and are afraid of losing him.
Understanding women's thoughts, men who are controlled and controlled by their wives should feel happy. Just like the famous wives of Guo Guangming and Hu Shi in history, willingly accepting the control of their wives is also a pleasure in life.
Imagine that managing and limiting your expenses by your wife is actually about accumulating wealth for your family; You don't have any extra money in your pocket, which is also to prevent property losses when your passion is strong; It is also to prevent those who wait for an opportunity to borrow money from you and do not intend to repay the "friend debt".
In fact, smart men all crave "strict wife management" because they don't have to worry about many trivial matters themselves. We may as well emulate Korean men, who have always had money like dirt, and all the money in their homes is managed by their wives. This not only did not make them lose their male prestige, but also made them feel that these are trivial matters. Men are all people who do big things, how can we let trivial matters get entangled.
After drinking the fine wine and getting slightly intoxicated, the good flower sees half blooming. In the relationship between husband and wife, men need to understand women's love and family responsibilities, while smart women need to understand moderation. The highest level of management is to make the person in charge willingly accept management. Only in this way can a family be happy and happy.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
