Post Date December, 03 2023
"You are lazy, timid, and cowardly. I don't know how I chose you..." I often hear many women complain about their men in life. Maybe after marriage, men's character will change a little, or their bad habits will be exposed. We know that men's feelings are not as delicate as women's, but every woman wants to have a perfect husband. So, how to be a perfect husband?
First, courage
Many women in life will complain that their husbands are becoming more and more timid and cowardly. In fact, men still need to be bold. Only when they are bold can they show masculinity. A man who is as timid as a mouse or as submissive as a man may not even be a real man. What is it to be a good husband. I admit that this sentence is a bit extreme, and some people like little men, but I believe that my sentence is still in line with the aesthetic standards of most women.
Second: Carefulness
The men we are familiar with are often careless and not as careful as women. But most of the time, boldness and carefulness contradict each other. Bold people are often not careful, while careful people always seem not bold enough. To be frank, as husbands in marriage, men's careless bad habits are really bad. Although carelessness is not equal to numbness and heartlessness, the pain it brings to women is often the same as numbness and heartlessness.
Third: Attendance
In the world of men, it seems that housework is the work of women. It is a terrible thing for men to be lazy. It means poverty beyond expectation, and the decline and unhappiness of families. Most of the lazy men are the masters of domestic violence, and most of them are the fathers who can't do their duty to their children. They will do everything they can to squeeze their lazy space from their families by taking a whip, and even sacrifice their dignity in exchange for the grudging food of women and children. Laziness is a parasite, which will drown a person with an unimaginable ability of reproduction, which is also summarized through many practical and painful cases.
So, as a husband, you should be diligent, and you should be able to run around for the food, clothing and happiness of your family. Even if it is to help her buy a bunch of baked potatoes, you should also be willing to walk up the 4500-meter street for her in the rain Maybe this is just a "perfect" husband who is not perfect enough!
How to be a perfect husband? Women always fantasize that they have a perfect husband in their hearts, and it is especially worth showing off when talking with others. As a man, of course, male emotion is also very important, but the man himself has changed, and the whole family, including the relationship with his wife, will become particularly harmonious.
(Intern editor: Zhao Minqing)
