In today's marriage, the gradual transformation of the social relationship between men and women has made many women truly "turn over". This is a good thing, but sometimes, after the relationship is too unbalanced, men act as "doormat" in the marriage. After being constantly controlled by the insolent women, they have lost interest in this kind of marital emotion in their hearts.
Li Guo and his wife have only been married for less than two years, but according to Li Guo's friend, Li Guo's mental outlook and physical condition are far worse than before. Many people said they could not understand this. Generally, men will become more and more energetic after marriage. How can Li Guo turn the other way around? It turns out that these different changes have a lot to do with Li Guo's marriage. Li Guo married a man who is often called "henpecked". At home, Li Guo, who has no right, is angry and scolded all day long. Thus, the happy life originally imagined will be in the hands of his wife.
The depression of marriage made Li Guo completely lose interest in this kind of life, but Li Guo couldn't divorce her because he didn't want to live in a single-parent family when he was young because he looked at his son who was just going to leave.
However, after Li Guo persisted for several months, Li Guo finally broke out. He and his wife had a big fight that day. He said crazily that he didn't even have the right to speak at home, that everything was up to you to decide, and that he was bound by her for normal communication with his friends... The full of resentment finally came out on that day. His wife looked at his bluster and didn't move. She gave him two slaps in the face. The anger in Li Guo's heart was completely ignited. He kicked and thought of his wife, who was turning around gracefully. The wife fell to the ground immediately after being kicked by Li Guo. Two people began to fight together in the atom
In marriage, the wife is too "overbearing", and it is difficult for the husband to grow old with her
In marriage, two people were originally an equal relationship without any oppression. However, due to personality and other reasons, many people are gradually "out of balance" in their marriage. They turn their irascible behavior into a routine thing, leaving the other party almost always under their insolent face.
In fact, such a marriage seems to be a victory in the absence of resistance or not strong resistance of the other party, but in fact, he=they are in a crisis. When the husband who has been silent for a long time and can no longer bear to suppress suddenly broke out, the failure of these women also followed. And this failure often comes at the cost of divorce.
In the relationship between husband and wife, a person, especially a wife, should not regard the tolerance of her husband as a kind of "victory". A man's tolerance does not want to break the family, but it is important to know that there will eventually be a limit. Women's excessive insolence breaks through the limit of tolerance, and their marriage will also be affected.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)