In a survey conducted in the United States, although 75% of married women have kissed a private part, 45% of them find it difficult to accept the other person's caressing style, either awkward or unpleasant. In short, not all women enjoy doing this. If you want to achieve sexual harmony, the most important thing is for two people to communicate with each other to achieve mutual understanding and ultimately have a happy experience with each other.
In addition, kissing private parts also poses health risks for men. Professor Pavel from the University Hospital of Geneva in Switzerland pointed out that for the tonsils, this behavior poses greater harm than smoking and alcohol, and is more likely to cause cancer. In addition, the virus that causes cervical cancer, human papillomavirus (HPV), can also spread between the oral cavity and genitalia, especially for sexually active individuals with multiple sexual partners, with a high probability of infection. The incubation period of this virus is uncertain, and sometimes cancer can only be diagnosed after several decades of infection.
Therefore, while seeking stimulation or pleasure, we cannot ignore the factors of health. Sexual intercourse, which is based on mutual understanding and ensuring health, can make each other happier and more lasting.
Expert: Try not to eat cold food after marriage.
Before sexual intercourse, it is also important to pay attention to diet: renowned American sexual medicine experts have pointed out that coffee has a certain impact on sexual activity, with moderate benefits and excessive harmful effects.
After sexual intercourse, consuming some cold food has no adverse effects on the body. The changes caused by sexual excitement are only concentrated in the sensory nervous system and endocrine system, and as the sexual excitement disappears, these changes gradually return to normal. Eating cold food, even if it has a stimulating effect, is limited to the digestive tract.
Moreover, the warmth of the food during the eating process has minimal stimulating effect on the healthy gastric tract. For people who originally suffered from gastroenteritis, indigestion, or ulcers, even if they cannot have sex, eating more cold food is not good.
From this, it can be seen that consuming cold drinks, ice cream, popsicles, etc., regardless of sexual activity, should be stopped according to the condition of one's own gastrointestinal function and should not be consumed without restraint.
Sexual afterplay advocates inventorying the most popular sexual afterplays
After sexual activity, 17% of men immediately fall asleep, 9% immediately take a shower, 32% immediately lie down and adjust their breathing and smoking, 14% immediately get up and go to the bathroom, 65% of men find something to eat and drink after these activities. At the same time, surveys conducted by sex therapists show that both Eastern and Western men seem to lack the concept of sexual afterplay. About 40% of men do not have a warm wife after sex ends.
After male ejaculation, the congestion of the penis weakens within 5-10 seconds and returns to normal within 30 minutes. Female pelvic congestion persists for a long time and completely disappears within 4-6 hours after cessation of sexual intercourse. At this time, if there were no afterplay, they had a feeling of being suspended in the air. So, what should partners do after sex ends?
shower
Many men say that after having sex, the most enjoyable thing to do is to bathe with their partner. In the steaming bathroom, two people can continue to appreciate each other's bodies and caress each other. Hot water can also stimulate blood circulation and alleviate male fatigue.
dialogue
After sexual intercourse, many women like to talk to their partners, review past good feelings, or talk about topics between two people. Experts believe that having sex is the best time for sexual communication between the sexes. However, sex experts remind women that it is best to start a conversation by praising their partner's performance, which will greatly satisfy men and prevent them from falling asleep, which is conducive to maintaining a sexy and warm atmosphere.
massage
Mutual massage between partners can help them maintain physical contact and enjoy the wonderful feeling of skin contact. However, women should pay attention not to stimulate the man's lower body during massage, mainly to make both parties feel comfortable.
embrace
Most women enjoy hugging their partner and staying in bed after sex. They curled up in the man's arms and could continue to experience the satisfaction and joy brought by physical contact. Many men also have the same needs, which can give them the opportunity to continue showcasing their male power. Experts believe that this approach is most conducive to further deepening the relationship between men and women.