In the sexual life of couples, the most common misconception of men will directly affect the effect of sexual love. If it is serious, the most common misconception of men will also lead to disharmony in sexual life and affect the feelings of couples.
What are the most common misconceptions of men about sex?
1. Men's sexual desire is really stronger than women's
Needless to say, adolescent men are more full of sexual fantasy and needs than women. Many young people confuse emotional needs with sexual needs and meet emotional needs through sex, which often continues into adulthood. After men enter adulthood, the pressure of work and the burden of family will weaken the vigorous sexual desire of adolescence. For a 20-year-old boy, it may be right to always want to do "that thing". But for an adult married man, he is more inclined to various kinds of sexual exchanges, rather than just meeting sexual requirements. Of course, the sexual desire of a few people has always been strong, which cannot be generalized. The same is true for women.
2. Women like men who are powerful and brave
For women, what kind of men are the sexiest and most attractive? Is it mighty or rugged? Women in today's society prefer men who are gentle, kind, aggressive, successful and responsible, because they will give them more sense of security, dependence and trust. Most women also admit that such men are really sexy and attractive. As for sexual life, bravery and rudeness are two different things.
3. Sex is sex
They need to be caressed and eager to be touched, hugged and kissed, but this requirement does not mean having sex. Men often misunderstand women's meaning. When women express enthusiasm, they think they want to have sex. At this time, men think they have met women's requirements, while women feel that her meaning is misunderstood.
4. I always think that when I think about sex, I can have sex immediately
Like women, men do not always want to have sex, nor do they always want to have sex immediately. In terms of "immediately available", men are not as good as women, because men have a "refractory period" after ejaculation and can not have an erection for a period of time. The length of the refractory period, from a few minutes to a few hours, varies from person to person, from situation to situation, and from age.
5. Sensitive points are fixed
Women have sexual sensitivity, and many people think that women's sensitivity is the same. Many times, men will also take the sensitive points of their ex-girlfriends to their current girlfriend or wife, thinking that all women are the same. Therefore, when having sex, men deliberately kiss and caress the so-called sensitive area, but it is the same place every time. As a matter of routine, many women lose their sensitivity, but do not know how to tell him.
6. Excessive emphasis on the number and frequency of sexual life
There is a public opinion among men. It seems that the more times they have sex, the more qualified and masculine the man will be; His wife is also more satisfied and happy. On the other hand, husbands with less frequency are said to be "unable to serve (or cope with) their wives" and "not manly enough".
In sexual life, the correct concept of sex is very important. Therefore, establish a correct concept of sex and enjoy a harmonious sexual life.