Post Date November, 16 2024
Some people in life may develop a sense of disgust towards sexual activity. Sexual aversion is a reaction of disgust towards sexual activity, which can generate strong negative emotions during sexual activity. Avoiding sexual activity due to excessive fear or anxiety is considered a negative psychology. So, what are the psychological reasons for sexual aversion?
1. A sense of guilt
Due to the influence of traditional ideas and a lack of cultural knowledge, sexual activity is considered shameful and licentious behavior. This kind of negative idea makes people afraid to understand common knowledge about sexual life, even if they have sexual diseases or sexual dysfunction, they dare not go to the hospital for treatment. In fact, sexual activity is the most basic requirement for both humans and organisms. Maintaining a harmonious sexual life can elevate emotions.
2. Sense of being moved
Some women may experience feelings of being moved and be in a passive position during sexual activity, believing that taking the initiative makes them appear indecent, leading to a lack of enthusiasm and initiative in sexual activity. Sexual activity is a common behavior between husband and wife, and only by encouraging, infecting, and cooperating with each other can they have shared pleasure.
3. Fear
Many women who have sex for the first time experience a sense of fear, which can lead to a negative and passive mentality, inevitably affecting orgasm and even creating a vicious cycle. In addition, there are also some women who are worried about getting pregnant, and they worry about getting pregnant every time they have sex. They even resort to interrupting sexual intercourse midway, which can cause psychological and physical discomfort over time.
4. A sense of sacrifice
Many women do not have a clear understanding of the subconscious and concept of chastity, believing that maintaining virginity is the most glorious and noble. Believing that sexual activity is one's own sacrifice, even seen as a responsibility or obligation. In fact, in terms of sexual life, as long as both parties have the same needs, their status is equal.
5. Fearful psychological response
Sexual aversion is also related to fear psychological reactions. For example, women have experienced rape before, which has caused great psychological trauma and led to a sense of disgust. Some men also try to avoid sexual activity due to abnormal secondary sexual characteristics, excessive hair on the woman's body, or underdeveloped breasts, fearing being discovered by the opposite sex.
The above are the reasons for sexual aversion. During treatment, the principle of gradual progress should be adopted, and sexual activities should be reasonably controlled to resist sexual temptation brought about by spouses. Collaborate closely with doctors and strictly follow their instructions for treatment. Improve the body sensation ability related to touch and repeatedly engage in sexy concentration exercises. When the anxiety is relieved, increase the amount of sexual stimulation. Emotional concentration exercises can generate a certain sense of comfort and reduce anxiety during sexual activity.
