Post Date December, 03 2023
Although love knows no age or national boundaries, and since the reform and opening up, people's curiosity about cross-border marriage has also been decreasing, their understanding of love over the years is still not optimistic. Any couple with a significant age difference in the community will become the focus of public opinion, especially a professor and his wife who are half a century apart in age in the past few years, who have been pushed to the forefront of various media outlets.
The impact of age difference on sexual life of couples
In an ideal marriage, the man should be slightly older than the woman and have sexual experience, but if the man is 10 years older than the normal marriage age, of course, he is no longer "very young". When starting a married life, a man in his thirties and a girl in his twenties have many advantages when combined, but if you want to prolong your sexual life harmoniously, it is more suitable to have a larger age difference.
Men have the strongest sexual ability between the ages of 20 and 30, and gradually decline after the age of 35. The peak of women's sexual ability is around 30-40 years old. From the perspective of harmonious sexual life, it is most suitable for women to be around 10 years older than men. However, in real life, marriage between "female and male" is relatively rare compared to marriage between "male and female". If a man marries a woman 10 years or even younger than himself, over time, it often becomes increasingly difficult to satisfy his wife's sexual desires, which can affect marital relationships and lead to family conflicts.
The impact of age difference on marital emotions
In the past, people believed that husbands had an absolute responsibility to educate and guide their wives on sexual issues, and such guidance is still needed in today's young women. However, their role is no longer limited to sexual life, but more focused on daily communication and necessary communication. Just like a couple with an age difference of 10 years, when men and women come from different eras, their perspectives on thinking may differ. Men may be more considerate of their families, while women may be more self reliant. Such a couple living together will inevitably lead to men's endless tolerance for women, and when they can't bear it anymore, that is when the marriage relationship breaks down.
Therefore, when considering aspects such as sexual life and emotional communication, it seems better for the age difference between the wife and husband not to be too large. When starting a marriage together, the sexual experiences of both parties are relatively similar, and the thinking of considering problems is also relatively similar. If both parties get married at a very young age, they can share the happiness brought by their personal sexual impressions and experiences, which constantly expand. Therefore, finding a lover who is in agreement with oneself and has a small age difference plays a crucial role in stabilizing the marital relationship.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
