Post Date December, 03 2023
Men and women after the 1980s are increasingly entering the marriage arena. Is life after marriage very different from before? Before marriage, you can ignore the trivial issues of daily necessities, which is a reality that every couple must face after marriage. Today, let's follow the editor to see what the truth about marriage must be seen by couples after the 1980s.
Understanding of third party involvement
On the surface, he had an affair; In essence, no love. How can a divorced man and woman kiss, have sex, and give the key to their own home to each other - after they brawl for every copper coin?
Recognition of commitments
Commitment is just a momentary feeling. Can men truly believe their promise to come with their mouths open? They recognize that color is emptiness: to change clothes, you need to lock them, to enter a room, to knock on the door, to meet on narrow paths, to avoid physical contact by tacitly leaning sideways, to use no language for things that can be explained with expressions, and to use language when necessary, drift your eyes over the other person's shoulder and focus on a fixed object about a foot behind them, For example, on a radish on the top of the refrigerator.
Analysis of family and love
Most of us have a previous relationship history. My ex-husband had chickenpox and had itched and scratched, but now there are only shallow marks left. "My mother, on the other hand, has a blood clot and is stubborn, which makes her half paralyzed and hopeless.".
N definitions of men
Men are like dry food, who can't grab white noodles or even make a stick of noodles. If they don't start quickly, they can't even grab mixed noodles. They are all starving, and they are also particular about taste!
Understanding of existence
I used to think that people were like vines, always depending on what could exist; We call what we attach to meaning.
Understanding of heartlessness
Enjoy confrontation after marriage, enjoy absurdity when divorced, and enjoy freedom when single - no wonder I write about both marriage and divorce so funny because I have no heart or lungs.
If we grow old together, this text is a milestone; If not, it is an epitaph.
I used to think: "The Seven Year Itch", what about the sixth year? Now I know that in the sixth year, we were wondering if it would itch in the seventh year.
Revealing the Truth of Love:
Life doesn't need roses, life needs food. Days are like autumn leaves, falling one by one, and sooner or later they will all be gone. We just want them to fall in a more graceful manner, so that when only the bare tree trunks are left, there is only emptiness.
"I dare to write about marriage only when I am in a good mood. I am afraid that when I feel depressed, I will sweep out all the unhappiness piled up in the corner of my memory, and I am even more afraid of probing into the bottom line. I find that marriage is just as meaningless as the trivial matters in the world.".
At weddings, a daughter is always carefully handed over by her father to her husband. She proudly states that the responsibility to take care of a woman has been transferred between two men - what a shame! Completely masking the terrifying reality. I have always thought that it would be better to transform it. In the holy sound of etiquette and music, the mother leads the son out, and then gives it to the daughter-in-law - signaling that she will be responsible for the man's daily life from now on, without shirking. The truth is so heinous.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
