Post Date December, 03 2023
It is easier to find a balance point when talking with an old man than when dealing with a young man, "I will never understand my tenderness". Compared with the tendency of little boys to be silly in love, old men make women feel safe and stable. He will tolerate your small shortcomings with tolerance and magnanimity, and will easily solve your problems when you feel confused. When it comes to life, the sigh of "inexhaustible words" arouses women's innate compassion. In short, compared with the little boy, the old man is nearly perfect, and even his shortcomings constitute part of his unique charm.
Attraction of old men
1. Wealth attraction
Old men have money, which is the basic characteristic of this kind of old men. The lack of financial consideration removed the biggest obstacle in the romantic love drama for him - they have enough economic basis to support an ideal sky of pursuing love. In addition, most of the wealth of old men is based on the structure and achievements of their career, which makes women get such logical support: wealth is the most obvious symbol of success, and the admiration for success is natural.
Dependence of small women:
This competitive era of survival of the fittest makes many women too tired to grow up. Moreover, from the perspective of physiological structure, women are not naturally competitive like men, so they are more comfortable to regard the old man as a protective umbrella and a little woman snuggling beside him.
If you are not independent economically, you will not be free mentally. Love needs to be paid for. Who will pay for the expensive cost of love? The wealth of the old man becomes particularly critical at this moment. The so-called economy is not independent, and the soul is not free. In the love between a small woman and an old man, the mentality of a small woman to get something for nothing plays a key role.
2. Role attractiveness
Freud said that it is natural for girls to have an Oedipal complex. In fact, when an old man meets a small woman, he will indeed show a special kind of spoiled. Which woman doesn't want to be spoiled while being loved? Therefore, most of the time, he is the object of your petting. Even if he is tired of your cat behavior, he will not easily show his annoyance on his face and let it become the fuse of dispute.
Once in a while, being childish will make girls feel lovely and valuable. Such mature men will and will only be childish in front of you, which is very exciting.
Dependence of small women:
Most successful old men know how to make a woman more beautiful, which is exactly what women are born to love beauty. For them, old men are not only material supporters, but also spiritual Taoists, spiritual friends and career mentors. This kind of relationship makes women's life depend on old men to some extent, both physical distance and psychological distance.
3. Attitude attractiveness
The old man's dedication to career, devotion to work, calm to life and optimistic and tolerant attitude make him feel stable and safe, which is exactly what women want and want. Especially in such a competitive society. All women and even men will be impressed by the posture of Mount Taishan, which remains unchanged despite the storm. And his indiscernibility will also make imaginative women have a desire to conquer.
4. This is the part that old men can win women's hearts most.
Women are either attracted by his rising experience, or by his youth inspirational and tragic drama, or by his rich sexual experience. They have experience in dealing with various complex situations. When women encounter difficulties, they can easily resolve women's doubts and make women feel at ease. The calm and sophisticated handling style formed by experience also makes women have a strong sense of trust in old men.
The richness of old men is a great complementarity of interests for simple women. Their experience will make women often make new discoveries. Sometimes you will find resonance with his past in your current experience, and sometimes the bitterness he has experienced can also be used as a reference for your life. Women are born to dream and have a film-like vision of love. Women need the favor of men, and the tolerance and understanding of old men make women love more easily and freely. Even if women pay more than men in some aspects, old men also have the ability and know how to care and balance.
