Sexual Health
Adolescent Sex Education Should Be Scientific How Adolescent Children Treat Sexual fantasy Correctly
Children leave adolescence and enter the most exciting period of resistance in their lives. Many children's lives are mostly destroyed by adolescence, which is also the most important period of sexual intercourse for a person. The biggest concern for parents is how their children should safely spend their adolescence.
Introduction to Personality Performance of Adolescent Children
Resistance, adolescent children have strong resistance. They are always excited, lose their temper, and sing to adults because their consciousness is beginning to establish, and work should be done according to their own will. A little restraint from adults can lead to resistance.
Puzzled by ideals and reality, adolescent children have a broad vision, strong observation ability, and improved sensory ability. They look at the new world in front of them with a curious eye, and discover that it is very different from what they have learned in books. They will feel confused between ideals and reality.
Due to the enhancement of self-awareness, they often pay attention to themselves. Sometimes, due to small flaws in appearance and academic failures, they think they are inferior and look at others too high, resulting in a sense of inferiority and becoming lonely.
Self display: Adolescent children have a strong sense of vanity. They wear fancy clothing and take popular actions among classmates with the aim of showcasing themselves. This tendency is a normal phenomenon in adolescence, but it must be guided correctly. Otherwise, in order to satisfy vanity, it is easy to go astray.
Caring about the opposite sex, due to the stimulation of sex hormones, adolescent children are very concerned about the opposite sex. The opposite sex has become the central topic of conversation among classmates, with some children secretly reading sexual knowledge books and others attempting to establish one-on-one communication between men and women.
Given the above reasons, parents should first understand that it is normal for their children to undergo some changes in their daily lives, which is a reflection of psychological changes during adolescence in their actions. Parents don't need to pay too much attention and worry, nor should they overly suppress their children's unrealistic thoughts and actions. Otherwise, it will lead to psychological distance between the child and their parents, increasing the psychological burden on the child.
More importantly, parents should be full of love for their children. If parents simply curse, the opposition between children and parents will intensify. As parents, we should take the initiative to chat with our children, care about their learning, listen to their ideals, praise and affirm them, establish their trust in their parents, understand their troubles and confusions through chatting, and find the right way to eliminate them. We also need to contact teachers in a timely manner to encourage them to participate more in class work and sports activities, divert their attention, and allow children to live a fulfilling life every day.