Adolescent sex education doesn't need to hide its sparkle, it's important to learn to protect the defense line

At the level of scientific knowledge in sex education, it is not only necessary to teach children physiological and psychological knowledge, but also to inform them of the dangers of premature sexual activity. Children can only handle sexual issues more rationally and protect themselves when they are aware of these hazards.

Sex has become outdated since it's too early

Parents should not talk about sexual discoloration. The initial sexual enlightenment education for children, including gender awareness, social role awareness, self-protection awareness, and moral responsibility, should be completed by guardians. Tell them what they want to know in a timely manner, and children will not be more eager to explore. If you don't find your own path, you won't try, accept incorrect information, or have a negative impact on them.

Protecting oneself and protecting others

In terms of sense of responsibility, we must tell children to protect themselves from harm and deal with emotional and sexual issues that do not harm others. This is not only a responsibility to ourselves, but also to family and each other. For sex, everyone must take responsibility.

Timely let children know self-protection, they will not touch their own bodies casually, will not harass or infringe on their own opportunities, and avoid unfortunate things!

Expert: Don't let children develop a forbidden fruit mentality

Why are forbidden fruits so sweet? This concept essentially reflects the general mood of people, which is to break through abstinence. The act of breaking taboos, driven by the desire to break them, often leads to unfortunate or unethical results. Therefore, in order to prevent the occurrence of destructive behavior, we must try to eliminate or weaken people's desire for destruction. This is certainly an educational issue.

The improvement of living standards has led to generally good nutritional status, accelerated physical development, early sexual maturity, and restless sexual consciousness among adolescent girls. Due to the strong demand for early sexual experience, the arrival of puberty makes them psychologically independent and free from the constraints of their families

Parents should have a good balance in their children's sex education and not blindly isolate them, which can create a strong sense of curiosity and rebellion in their children. We should try to teach children some knowledge of sexual science and then educate them on sexual morality. In this way, the regrets of 'young mistakes' will decrease.

How to Protect the Line of Defense during Adolescent Sexual Initiation

Adolescence is a period of sexual maturity, where both sexes attract and admire each other, even breaking through the final line of defense. However, when they break through this line of defense, especially girls, it is often accompanied by a lot of confusion and sadness.

If you cherish yourself, please learn from painful stories, learn to bravely say no to temptation during lonely adolescence, and have safe and happy love time.

Story 1: Physiological desires cannot comfort a wounded heart

During Susan's childhood, there were some unpleasant things: the disharmony in her family, which led to her often having heavy worries. Susan had never experienced a particularly happy and sweet feeling in her relationship with her boyfriend since childhood. Instead of missing your boyfriend, it's better to miss the feeling of warmth and happiness. However, all of this has undergone unexpected changes. Susan believed that the reason for her softness was that she had long heard that if a man had a woman, she would no longer have charm in her heart. Susan shouldn't have handed herself over to him earlier.

That was when I was in high school.

On a heavy night, Su Shan rushed out of his father's house. She saw a scene she shouldn't have seen, but unfortunately the female protagonist in that scene was not her mother, but another woman. The father behind called her name, and that voice looked very obscene in the rain.

Susan threw the key left by her father into the rain and called her boyfriend, who arrived at her for the first time. On the night when the rain and tears raged, he remained motionless with Susan until she no longer had the power to vent and cry. Finally, the boyfriend gently hugged her, like protecting an injured deer, and said, 'Don't be afraid, you're with me!'! That night, Susan didn't go home. In a hotel far from school, they hurriedly and hurriedly completed the most memorable thing of their lives

Story 2: Unreliable Feelings

After watching a movie with her boyfriend, Chunjuan's residential area suddenly experienced a power outage. While Chunjuan, who was afraid of the dark, was worried, her boyfriend volunteered to accompany her. Chunjuan remembered that for the past two years, Lin Ke had been holding hands with her, hugging her, and kissing her at most. She was very cooperative and obedient, and had never committed any foul actions. She should have believed it, so she agreed to his request.

They lit candles to chat, and Chunjuan was a bit cold. When she was about to find a blanket, her boyfriend hugged her with both arms. Chunjuan wanted to break free from him, but Lin Ke hugged her more tightly from behind. A warm stream spread throughout her body, and she felt very comfortable, so she no longer refused. At this point, the boyfriend had forgotten the "gauge distance" set by Chunjuan, and took the opportunity to hold her and overturn on the sofa. Before Chunjuan could fully react, he forcibly possessed her. Afterwards, my boyfriend admitted his mistake and swore, "I can't help but love you!

Experts comment that when a boyfriend is sexually assaulted, women often comfort that it is love. Although she was unwilling, she still compromised. In fact, men's love is direct, and when enthusiasm arrives, they can resort to any means. When he speaks of love, it is often a fake mask for sex. So, when he swears his vows, he can be intoxicated, but don't mess up his position. What should be concerned about is one's body in love. Your body is your own, and if you don't want the other person to come into contact, firmly refuse.