Post Date December, 02 2023
Nowadays, chatting online has become a way of modern people's spiritual life. However, some couples have conflicts due to chatting with the opposite sex, which affects their feelings.
A friend told me that her husband often chats online and is very engaged in the conversation. Sometimes, by 12 pm, his QQ is still flashing. This made her feel very uncomfortable and always worried that her husband was chatting with other women.
Once, her husband was chatting online again. While he was on the bathroom, he peeked at his chat records and found that he was chatting with other women about things he didn't know, which made her feel completely shocked. When her husband came out of the bathroom, she had a big fight with him. Since then, family conflicts have continued, and the relationship between husband and wife has become increasingly weak.
In married life, everyone has their own privacy and independent small space. If the wife is always suspicious of ghosts, it will make her husband very uncomfortable. If the husband immerses himself in chatting online, it can also make his wife feel uncomfortable. Therefore, couples must trust each other to make their marriage stronger.
Grasp the scale of online chatting
For couples, each person has their own friends of the opposite sex. Due to the distance, two people can only chat through the internet. At this time, it is necessary to grasp a certain scale, and not allow the emotions in virtual space to affect the feelings of couples in real life and undermine the stability of the family. To chat with friends of the opposite sex, just communicate your current life experiences or work matters. Don't talk about personal matters to avoid misunderstanding your spouse and putting your marriage at risk.
Give each other space to be free
Marriage needs to be managed, and if the couple stay together all day, over time, there will also be aversion. Therefore, leave a little independent spiritual space for each other and maintain a proper distance. As long as he loves you, you should not doubt the content of his online chat all day long. Nowadays, life is very stressful, and chatting online is just one way to relieve stress. Sometimes a man doesn't want to tell you about his inner pressure, just because he brings you more happiness. Therefore, you should learn to respect him.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
