Post Date December, 03 2023
Nowadays, many people get along for a long time before they develop feelings. Some people just don't have their other half yet because they don't have one; Some people find that the person in front of them is more suitable for them than their other half; Some people gradually develop feelings for each other under the constant pursuit of one of them... Some homosexuals also find love for the first time due to the growing affection, but unlike others, their love object is not the opposite sex.
Two years ago, Xiaoliang had just graduated from college and came to Beijing to work alone. With a meager income, he could only share a house with others. Together with Xiaoliang, I rented a handsome boy from the south. After negotiating the price of the house through the internet, the two of them rented it together.
From strangers to acquaintances, Xiao Liang gradually developed a strange feeling towards the boy over a year. During the daytime at work, he would often call the boy, and after the boy returned home from vacation, Xiao Liang was even more homesick
And that boy, looking at the man in front of him who is very manly and often helps and takes care of himself, has a good feeling for Xiaoliang in his heart.
After attracting each other, the two finally confessed to each other on the phone when Xiaoliang returned to his hometown for the New Year. In this way, Xiaoliang began his homosexual life.
Xiao Liang said that he had no previous thoughts about this aspect, nor did he think he would like boys. It was only after getting along with this southern boy for a long time that he began to develop feelings for him. The same is true of that southern boy, who said he was not a homosexual before, and somehow fell in love with Xiaoliang, and felt that he could not leave him now.
Gender experts have stated that, like the two gay men in the above case, they have indeed not liked homosexuals before. However, neither of them had any antipathy towards homosexuality. Therefore, after spending some time together, the two people changed from strangers to acquaintances, and their emotions were completely filled with the person in front of them. There is no essential difference between this and the prolonged relationship between lovers, but it is precisely because of this that many people have embarked on the path of homosexuality.
"People who have no or less homosexual tendencies tend to" grow in love "with a certain same-sex person over time. Such homosexuals are not born homosexuals, they belong to the nurture type.".
Therefore, if we find ourselves in a similar situation with a certain same-sex person at this time, but have not developed to be inseparable from each other, we can choose to leave such an environment as early as possible, and perhaps this situation will naturally disappear in a different environment. Of course, if individuals believe that there is nothing bad about homosexuality, they can further sublimate their feelings in the process of continuing to get along.
