Post Date December, 03 2023
What are the criteria for judging a good man? Leaving aside personal abilities and financial resources, the first thing to mention is a persistent and unchanging heart. As long as one can love a woman for a lifetime, do not engage in extramarital affairs, and have no thoughts or actions of cheating. This kind of man can be called 'good'. And this kind of man is not something that can be achieved through words, it needs to be "refined". How to do it? Take a look at the self cultivation principles below.
A good man needs to "cultivate" his inner self
First: Learn to refuse
A 'good man' is a sweet spot in the eyes of the opposite sex. They are usually gentle and elegant, and even if they are already married, they will become the target of women's pursuit. Various autumn waves and gentle traps will swarm in, and for those who pretend to be pitiful "helpers", good men naturally do not know how to refuse. It is precisely because they do not know how to refuse that "warblers, warblers, swallows, and swallows" take advantage of the opportunity to enter. So, in order to prevent third parties from interfering, all other members of the opposite sex must be excluded from the door.
Second: Fearless of temptation
For a "good man", cherishing his wife and loving his children can be considered a true good man. It is undeniable that in real life, the temptation of the outside world is great. 'Good men' share their 'good' with more people, and they want more people to feel their 'good'. However, no matter how tempting the outside world may be, men should control themselves well, not forget that 'women are better than themselves', and not always think about how to please the women outside. Men who hang out outside should have the ability to withstand temptations and not let the temptations of the colorful world lose their way forward.
A good man should be 'invincible to all poisons'
1. Completely forgot about my old girlfriend
The situation of a resurgence is easy to happen, but the resurgence of love between a man and his old girlfriend often occurs when the man and his wife are about to enter another new stage. The appearance of an old girlfriend can bring a glimmer of life to a man, and extramarital affairs can easily arise. In this regard, a good man must cut off the roots of love and completely forget the past.
2. Do not eat "grass by the nest"
It is also a common situation to develop from a colleague to a lover. We cannot deny the occurrence of romantic relationships over time. Working together between men and women can spark sparks due to their different perspectives, and it will never be like a mundane family life. When a man and a female colleague have an extramarital affair, they naturally feel more relaxed and happy, and can also bring freshness to a mundane life. This kind of 'nest grass' is too dangerous, what should we do? Maintain distance, learn to be indifferent, and always remember that you are someone with a wife!
3. Stand aside as' best friend '
It is also very common for men to take advantage of their wives' "best friends", who usually have frequent contact with their wives. As time goes on, a man's understanding of his wife's "best friend" is no less than his understanding of his wife. It is this kind of close yet unreachable relationship that actually makes men feel even more itchy, and the desire to cross boundaries becomes even stronger. The best way is for women not to let their girlfriends have too much contact with their men, and men should know how to distance themselves and not get too close. This "honey" is poison, not sugar!
