Post Date December, 03 2023
"Shopping maniacs" are a certain group in this society. They are active in the post modern consumption era and have become a special phenomenon. From the perspective of psychologists, the mindset of "shopaholics" is both rational and often loses the control they should have. The bitterness and joy in this is not something you can feel as a spouse, but when your wife, lover, or girlfriend is a shopaholic, what mindset will you embrace? Full of boredom? Or are you willing to accompany?
JONNY Psychiatrist Married for Three Years
My wife is an architectural designer and a workaholic and shopaholic. On weekends, if she is not at work, she must be shopping, whether it is a virtual commercial space on the internet or a real commercial space in the city. She is addicted to the joy of shopping.
Anyway, I love her shopping craziness more than workaholism, at least when she's shopping, I can feel that she's a woman obsessed with skirts and high heels. "I have never seen her shopping behavior as a psychopath, which was her only female aspect. Only then did all of her" strength "disappear. She was an elite female" shopaholic "in this city and a relatively rational shopaholic. However, she still spent a large amount of income on shopping, facing the useless and useful things that filled her home.".
Faced with her ever-expanding shopping desire, I occasionally fell into fear. "Only when the credit card bill reaches her can I hear her exclamation and painful determination, but the money is hers and has not had a significant economic impact on the family. What else can I say?"?
Psychoanalysis:
Although shopping does not have economic pressure, it cannot be used as an excuse for crazy shopping. If she satisfies herself too much from a material perspective, while being a "workaholic" who strives to make money, she is also a "shopaholic" who uses consumption to satisfy herself, the content of her life is actually very simple. Therefore, "shopaholics" often put pressure on the people around them, because it seems that they don't know how to satisfy them except for material matters.
However, many gentlemen are actually helping their wives become "shopaholics", such as Jonny. Only when shopping, can their wives be less powerful and display "the only female side". Therefore, although they are verbally worried, they will intentionally or unintentionally prefer to see the feminine side of their wives.
Who will save my love
ALEX Network Engineer Married for Six Years
"We are a small and healthy family, and people say how happy I am. I have a tasteful and beautiful wife, and I have a lovely daughter.". But every month when the bill arrives, I don't know where to complain about my troubles.
The love of beauty is inherent in a woman, but she can really swipe her card crazily for beauty. After that, she always swore not to buy anymore. But as soon as I enter a fashion store, I forget everything. Of course, she not only helps herself buy clothes, but also helps me and my daughter dress up. So the clothes in our family are always bright and fresh, and even my daughter likes her mother very much, just like me.
"But looking at that credit card that's always at full capacity, my heart is just worried.". Who knows when you suddenly need some money? What can that pile of clothes do for us? "I have tried to economize and secretly save some money in case of unexpected needs, otherwise who knows what will happen tomorrow?"?
Psychoanalysis:
Dressing up your family beautifully is indeed a good reason to continue to be a "shopaholic": I'm not just for myself. However, helping family members buy things is not necessarily about family considerations. If crazy shopping is to make "my" things look good, then the family is working hard because they are not "whose" things and require a lot of interactive emotions.
After dressing up your belongings, regardless of the family's bills or unexpected events, even if the family looks beautiful, they are not happy. By the way, the simplest solution is not to open a credit card.
