Post Date December, 03 2023
The lover may deprive you of the right to smoke, but the lover can coquettishly light a cigarette for you, take a sip, and then hand it over to you. Lover is not a derogatory term, and having a lover's life is not necessarily a tragedy. Every man should have a lover, preserving the purer flavor of love
Almost everyone has a lover in their heart, whether it's their dream lover, their first love, their old love, their confidant, or their romantic relationship.
Zhang Jingsheng, the "first person in Chinese sexology", has traveled to Europe for ten years, attracting bees and butterflies, and seeking flowers and willows. After returning to China, they still fought fiercely in the love scene, but in the same scene, they were defeated for "several months without a soul". He himself also said that the life of a lover in Europe is comedy, and what he encounters in China is tragedy. His friend's words hit the nail on the head: "The hearts of Chinese and Western women are different. Western women love for love; Chinese women love is a subsidiary condition, and their most important thing is to choose a permanent and reliable marriage
Time has passed and it has been discovered that lover is not a derogatory term, and the life with a lover is not necessarily a tragedy. Life is short. If you love, you love. The key is to faithfully hear the voice of your heart. True love can dissolve many sorrows, oppression, and guilt, make your body and mind relaxed and intoxicated, and learn to control, cherish, and be grateful.
Lover, the birthplace of men's romance
Mr. Xu is a professional with a background in science and engineering. Later, he opened a company and became a businessman. In people's traditional preconceived beliefs, men in this role are generally dull, utilitarian, and less flashy. Mr. Xu wants to subvert this role positioning, and he also has a romantic heart.
One day, when he came home early and pulled off his tie, he saw his wife busy in the kitchen. On a whim, he wanted to surprise her, so he walked quietly and barefoot to her back. She was suffocating with braised beef, and Mr. Xu suddenly hugged his wife's waist from behind. This was unprecedented. Just as he was about to whisper further or give her a kiss, The wife exclaimed impatiently, "You're insane." Seeing that he wasn't wearing slippers, she became even more angry. "Go ahead, quickly change your slippers." This greatly ruined the scenery, causing Mr. Xu to feel a sense of loss, loneliness, and embarrassment of being "affectionate but ruthlessly annoyed.
Another time, when there were many steamed fat crabs at home, Mr. Xu's romantic heart was once again aroused when his son didn't come back from school. He took the initiative to turn off the headlights and light the candles, hoping to have a fun dinner with his wife. There are wine, crabs, and flickering candlelight. My wife first objected, but still kept the catchphrase 'insane'. Later, under Mr. Xu's gentle persuasion, she sat down halfway. As a result, she felt that it wasn't bright enough and lit another candle. The gentleman said, 'It's better to be hazy.' Moreover, lighting one candle is romantic, and lighting two candles is somewhat like worshiping gods and ancestors.
Before he could finish speaking, his wife blew out the candle in one breath and even took advantage of the question: "Where did you learn a set? Did you learn it from some coquettish woman?" Mr. Xu was very innocent and helpless. He thought he could appreciate his wife's sexy process of eating crabs, stretching from peeling, tearing, sucking, and other actions to the bedroom, but in the end, he plunged himself into the darkness. He had to turn on the light, and his wife seemed to ease off, But he said, 'Hurry up and eat, there's still a TV series to watch later...'
Later on, the boss, who was originally clean but longed for romance, finally responded to his wife's "auspicious words" and met a girl in the company elevator, gradually becoming a "secret lover". The so-called "secret" refers to the fact that they don't even know where each other lives, only knowing that they are working in the same building. Several times in a restaurant near the company, the two of them also ate teppanyaki together. He just wanted to hear the beef burning and making a squeaking sound, And the beauty of the girl looking up at him and shyly smiling down.
They haven't had any major or "bad" events, or rather haven't happened yet. They will still encounter each other in the commuting elevator, looking at each other, smiling, somewhat meaningful, somewhat erratic, with ups and downs and graceful ripples in their hearts. Mr. Xu said that it's a "romantic insect" wriggling inside, and he doesn't want to kill it at the moment, nor does he want it to change into a butterfly with wings to fly out
Like Bush, there is a confidant named Rice
Mr. Lin, who is studying abroad, has a particularly distinctive mustache. At a dinner party, he was slightly drunk and talked about a fruitless relationship he had in Germany. It was a blonde girl, innocent and enthusiastic, and he had a good impression of him. Because he went on a study trip to Europe after getting married, he kept suppressing that relationship and dared not respond to the girl's attack. He almost fought and retreated. He admitted that he also liked the other party.
One day, they drove to the outskirts and stopped in front of a grape circle. The sun was shining brightly. The girl's hand, which was placed behind her, suddenly lit up. It turned out to be a pair of scissors. Mr. Lin was surprised and had a momentary desire to escape. In his opinion, scissors are dangerous for women. In traditional Chinese scripts, many tragic women use scissors to seek short-sightedness and resist, Or with a click, cut the lifeline of a sentimental man
When he was "thinking too much", the straightforward German girl jumped and shouted, "Come on, let's cut grapes." It turned out that the bright scissors were for cutting grapes, but he suddenly felt how shameful and cumbersome he was, and even had those associations. Later, their relationship ended in nothing, "Because I was weak, I let her down." After drinking, Mr. Lin criticized it this way.
After returning to China to start his own business, Boss Lin gradually became atmospheric and free spirited. He said that it was the German girl who made him suddenly cheerful, sometimes overly restrained, which would make men timid and lack courage. Now he openly admits that he has two "pink confidants", a sister like woman who is often his career confidant. If he has any problems, he can come to her for a drink, flirt with her, relax his nerves, and even entrust money to invest in each other
Another sister like woman often shares the troubles and joys of her romantic life. Sitting in his car, she can send or reply to text messages for him. The two families live very close together, and he often takes her home. When she's almost home, she says goodbye very gentlemanly, and sometimes she kisses her dry, sticking to the fragrance on her face, as if it means endless things.
In fact, men, apart from their wives, all hope to be surrounded by love from "suspected sisters". Just like President Bush, no matter how powerful, at a United Nations conference, even if they are in a hurry to urinate, they have to childishly hand over a note to Secretary of State Condoleezza Rice and ask if it's okay. It is said that Rice also enjoys this kind of role very much. One time at a party, she accidentally mistakenly said, "My husband Bush
Because there is a confidant outside, such a man is more likely to go home with a guilty heart, love his wife even more, to compensate, or even atone for it. This may be an unexpected gift from a popular confidant to marriage, which can be said to be a win-win situation.
