Post Date December, 02 2023
In marital life, various factors can affect the relationship between a couple, and the most important one is sexual activity. In fact, couples only have sex if they have love, and sex and love are combined. Only with a high level of sexual satisfaction can couples better integrate their emotions and make marriage impeccable.
In order to improve the quality of marriage, attention should be paid to the following issues in marital life:
1. Don't make your spouse feel lonely
Sexual psychologists have found that loneliness is the main cause of extramarital affairs. If couples lack friendly and friendly emotional communication, loneliness will naturally arise. Scholars have found that if one spouse invests all their energy into their work. Ignoring the concern for the spouse can result in the spouse being indifferent to their sexual relationship. When possible, they will seek new sexual relationships. Sexual activity between couples is the bond that maintains their love; It is not only physical intercourse, but also accompanied by emotional communication.
2. Make sexual life rich and colorful
Dr. Sandford pointed out in his book "Regulation of Sexual Life in Middle Age" that monotonous boredom is the cause of emotional change. After a few years of marriage, the passion begins to cool down, and there is no longer any mysterious temptation in both physical and mental aspects. If both spouses cannot explore and find new and more satisfactory lifestyles, some unwilling loners will seek external moments of pleasure.>> Never take the initiative to become a "three official" in marriage
3. Respect spouse's emotions
If there are too many arguments between couples, the saying goes, 'big arguments in threes and sixties, small arguments happen every day,' it can cause emotional damage and create estrangement. Sorrow is no greater than death of the heart. When one party suffers from harm and reaches the point of unbearable suffering, it will cause them to lose confidence in marriage.
4. Treat sexual life correctly
Improper handling of sexual life between couples can also sow the seeds of sin in an affair. In this regard, it seems that women should take on more responsibility. Generally speaking, men have a stronger desire for sexual life than women, and sometimes they have to compromise in front of their wives in order to have the opportunity to have sex. Some women discover this secret and use sex as a means of coercion and restraint, but even as they become complacent, boredom and disgust quietly take root in their husbands' consciousness.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
