Post Date December, 02 2023
If the couple regards marriage as the tomb of love, then your feelings and life will be in the dark. In fact, love and marriage do not conflict, but simply raise pure love to the level of responsibility. Couples can still have love, and let it embellish marriage more brilliant and happy. Therefore, every couple needs a "magic bullet" for love. What are the specific ones? Take a look at the key content below.
Coordinated and considerate intimate behavior
This intimate relationship includes a kind of harmonious and considerate friendship, which is based on the enthusiasm of consistency and also on the differences between each other. A wife put forward an interesting point of view. She said: "A happy marriage comes from two people who are opposite in personality and consistent in basic conditions." Her husband is an optimistic person by nature, but she is an introverted and pessimistic person. However, their common native place and religious belief made her fall in love with his spirit, and he fell in love with her weakness.
The warmest way to share life
One spouse is making breakfast, and the other is walking the dog. After breakfast, the husband and wife read the morning paper together. This is almost the case for all stable couples. Although these trivial matters themselves cannot produce happiness, they inject trust and responsibility into the marriage relationship.
Happy couples try to make a difference in their home. They work together so that they can buy a farm or a shop. No matter what their goal is, the joint efforts to achieve the ideal can make the marriage glow.
Be optimistic about understanding your lover
Couples who love for a long time seldom quarrel. Even if they are angry because of conflicts, they will be treated correctly. Of course, they have different ways to solve problems.
Sometimes, despite their efforts, one or the other will leave the room when there is a big fight. A wife said, "If I go out, I will come back in five minutes. We don't even have to say 'sorry', because we are very happy and they are together again." The couple used this method to avoid further quarrels. The withdrawal of one side reminded the other of their agreement and their good wishes for marriage.
Optimistic realism is one of the characteristics of a happy marriage. Mature marriage means that we should accept the fact that we all have shortcomings. Being a realist means that marriage has its joys and sorrows, and when it is smooth and difficult, it is better to face it than to nag.
Create happiness with patterns
Many happy couples know how to change themselves. They say that they have become more and more after marriage, and they all feel better, and their spouses agree with this. Unexpectedly, many happy couples have experienced marital crisis, but their marriage has survived and become increasingly happy.
For the development of love, we must give up some things. However, no one wants to give up personal development. The key is to estimate the room for change. The change of one party may temporarily shake the status quo of the relationship. In fact, it will encourage the other party. Couples' sexual life should also be actively reformed. Use your brain and mind to make your sex life happier and more beautiful, the physical and mental fit between husband and wife can be more perfect, and marriage can develop smoothly.
Marriage needs equality and mutual assistance
When a couple reaches the age of 40 or 50, they will no longer argue about who is in charge of the family, even if they have ever argued. Although there will also be contradictions, they are not for power and status, but in their minds, no matter what they do, their efforts are regarded as important. When you start to think more about and care about your relationship, you will get more rewards from each other.
The equal relationship between happy couples is most clearly reflected in financial management. Every happy couple, without exception, said that their family income was their common, neither his nor her, and they never argued over financial control.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
