For a woman who is already in a happy marriage, being a good wife should be more worthwhile than anything else. To be a good wife in the eyes of a man is not a word or a matter of day and night. Women need to know what they should and should not do.
In fact, for good wives who successfully manage their families, their way of doing things is very simple - "Five Don'ts".
1、 No comparison
Don't always talk about how good other people's husband is. Don't blame him for his lack of success. You are his closest person. It seems inappropriate to say that. For most men, praise and encouragement are more powerful than abuse.
Besides, do you love him and have the heart to hurt him? If you love him, you must respect him. You can't hurt others with anger. The wounds of words sometimes bleed all your life. Physical injury is easy to cure, and the consequences of mental injury are terrible.
2、 Don't ask
If he really loves you, you don't have to ask; If he doesn't love you, he has become your husband, will he clearly admit to his wife? Unless he doesn't want this marriage.
His love for you can be tasted by heart. Love is done, not said. The love that always hangs in the mouth but does not fall into the reality is too pale, marriage is realistic, life is realistic, romantic love is not real life. Marriage feels love from daily necessities.>> Ten rules for couples to love each other
3、 Don't show your face
He has been under a lot of pressure at work. He has no obligation to go home and see your face to make you happy. The other person will have shortcomings in personality, and the details of life will be different from you, which makes you dissatisfied. But how can he be perfect? In front of you, he should put down his mask, be himself, and be an ordinary person. Tolerance is the proper attitude towards life and marriage.
4、 Don't make fun of it
Men value their dignity more than anything else, no matter how much they love you and how afraid you are in private.
In front of others, we must give each other face, and let him be a man who is not afraid of his wife. He should not like his friends to make fun of his fear of wife. Unless he has strong backing and high status, most of us are ordinary people.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)