Post Date December, 02 2023
Like many divorced women, I may also talk about my ex husband's troubles first, but I don't want to talk anymore. What's the use of saying that? If two people don't see each other well, they won't get married. But when we reach the point of divorce
There will be various reasons. I can only say that he argued for divorce all day. I don't have much evidence to prove that he had an affair. I can only hesitate about whether to divorce or not. I have been hesitating for some time now, and I have been considering whether to win over my child for the sake of him. But if things haven't fundamentally changed, why am I still bothering him like this? Do I demand that my child not divorce for the sake of him? Do I have to live with my child for the rest of my life? How long is a lifetime? I don't know. I only know that in the month when I decided to agree to divorce, the time was so long.
So, I told him that I agreed to divorce. Let's talk about specific things. I said the child belongs to me, he is still young and cannot live without a mother. He agreed. What does he say about the child's alimony? I said you can handle it as you please. What else did he say? I still say you can handle it as you please.
Mr. Yiren, divorce is painful, but it is also happy. If you make a decision, cut through the chaos quickly. Long pain is better than short pain. I said hurry up and go to the Civil Affairs Bureau. He nodded, as if with a lot of melancholy. At that moment, I felt like he could still be saved. But when he asked me for the bank card at home, I thought he was hopeless, unlike a man. He said the money on the card should be divided equally, but I said it's okay. Whatever you do, just get a divorce quickly. It seems like I brought up the divorce.
That's it, I got divorced. Because the house belongs to his family, I have no place to live, so I rent a house with my child. I counted the remaining money and calculated when I dared to take out a loan to buy a small second-hand house. Life is not as difficult as imagined. Every morning when I wake up, the child calmly smiles at me, and then I prepare breakfast for the child. After breakfast, send the child to kindergarten, while I go to work. My mood is calm. When I'm with him, I feel flustered as soon as he enters the door. Sometimes I wonder why my ex husband panics when he opens the door? The reason is that I don't know if there will be another argument over something.
Although life has given me some hardships, looking at the child's small face makes me feel relieved and hopeful. When time dissolves everything, everything is thought of. It's quite difficult to take care of children alone, but the thought of being able to breathe freely gives me a sense of pride. Divorce is not the death of a woman, nor is it a painful life, it is a relaxed life. Mr. Yiren, I am very satisfied with my current mindset
