Post Date December, 02 2023
High quality sexual life is something that all couples pursue, but there are always obstacles and obstacles in sexual life that unconsciously affect the quality of sexual life for couples, while also contradicting their emotions and reducing the quality of sexual life. What is it?
What things can reduce the quality of sexual life
Muscle cramps
The most common type is muscle cramps on the outer thighs or calves during sexual intercourse, commonly known as cramps. This may be related to excessive movements and muscle stretching during sexual activity. Lack of water and fatigue in the body may become triggering factors. Can help oneself or partners massage problematic areas, promote local blood circulation, and relax muscles.
Female pelvic congestion
When a woman is sexually excited, a large amount of blood flows into the pelvic tissue to form a congested state. If orgasm is not achieved, pelvic congestion will gradually disappear. About 10% of people feel discomfort such as lower abdominal distension and lower back pain. At this point, you should lie flat and use a pillow to raise your hips, 30 minutes each time, 3-4 times a day, to help with blood circulation. If necessary, anti-inflammatory drugs such as aspirin can be taken. Of course, the most fundamental prevention method is to improve the quality of sexual life. When reaching orgasm, muscles and organs contract strongly, and congestion quickly dissipates.
Allergy to contraceptive measures
The occurrence of sexual allergies is mostly due to the unadaptability of double latex (the basic raw material for making condoms) and other contraceptive devices and drugs, and women often feel vaginal pain and burning. If you have an allergic reaction, you can use water, a damp towel, or a tissue to wipe off residual liquids, creams, etc., and take a warm water bath. Cold compress can be applied to the external genitalia to reduce swelling. If necessary, over-the-counter antihistamines can be taken. If you feel shortness of breath, palpitations, joint pain, swelling, or any rash or urticaria in any part of the body, you should seek medical attention immediately.
Don't be too rigid in sexual life
In fact, nowadays in daily life, people are paying more and more attention to their health and wellness. Therefore, it is important to pay attention to this in daily life, even during sexual activity, to be worried that excessive sexual activity may affect their health. Should couples have regular and quantitative sex?
Sex cannot be rigid or arbitrary
Indeed, marital life should not be rigid in advance and should adapt to enthusiasm, but specific problems should also be analyzed in detail. The safety of a complete encounter may also be contradictory. Just like market economy and planned economy, a fully planned economy cannot die, and a fully market economy cannot be opened. Even capitalist countries still have state-owned economies to ensure the smooth operation of the entire economy. For example, this government may privatize certain sectors, and the next government may nationalize them. Some couples are accustomed to the division of roles within marriage, and things are in order. In fact, this is not good. It cannot be completely out of order, but it cannot be too much. The important thing is mutual understanding and respect.
I must satisfy her or she must satisfy me
Some husbands believe that sex is determined by men, and as long as they are happy, they do not consider the other person's mood and physical condition, and they also dislike their wife's positive needs. Some husbands say that he should be responsible for his wife's sexual needs. Whenever and wherever she has a request, I will meet her and not refuse her In fact, this is a misconception in itself, as if sexual activity should always be initiated by the wife. The choice of intimate time is also a key factor determining whether the activity is popular with the female partner. Therefore, before expecting his wife to respond to his sexual demands, the husband should first consider whether the wife has had a pleasant day. If there are any unpleasant things, it is best to give up and come back another day. After the wife falls ill, does it bring a more severe test to the husband? Is it a strong impulse as usual, or is it more considerate of the wife's physical condition, giving her gentleness, consideration, and love? This requires the husband to temporarily give up self-esteem, humility, sensitivity, and understanding.
The sexual cycle kills the wife's sexual desire
Some men turn sexual intercourse into rules and regulations, making appointments for couples on the first day of the week, or not wanting to miss out on good days such as the sixth or eighth, regardless of the woman's sexual desire and physical condition at the time, killing the wife's sexual desire and motivation. Obviously, it's like there are no excellent sexual techniques that can be reused, no changes, and no popular sexual times for lovers. By the way, the location of sexual activity is not an important factor for sexual success, and we don't have any choice, but an undisturbed, quiet, safe, and frequently updated location is always beneficial.
